tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530499403094274572.post2556767516850301433..comments2023-05-16T05:54:03.248-07:00Comments on Squattincassanova: People Who Hold You Back and the Importance of Smaller Social CirclesSquattincassanovahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16541546366498248411noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530499403094274572.post-80816310968716309792013-04-20T23:12:08.807-07:002013-04-20T23:12:08.807-07:00what are your thoughts on being a connector and me...what are your thoughts on being a connector and merging social circlesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530499403094274572.post-91643562109121816942013-04-15T19:28:16.183-07:002013-04-15T19:28:16.183-07:00I have been reading your posts for a while now and...I have been reading your posts for a while now and this one has hit home for me. As an Indian dude (who knows you from simple pickup forum), I found that I was very fortunate to have only associated with White and Black people growing up since there were not that many Indians around where I grew up. Then when I ran across some Indians and read posts by them online, I started forming limiting beliefs because of the view they had on the world of women of other races not wanting them.<br /><br />With Asian men, I feel that you guys kinda have to overcome that complex and obstacle but being in an Asian social circle stops you. I did grow up around some Asian guys who were geeky Korean and Chinese kids.<br /><br />1. Talking to girls of other races was an absolute no no<br />2. Oh he talked to girls!? OOOOO he is a bad influence<br />3. Women of other races just don't want us<br /><br />I mean I even see it now when I am with a girl that happens to be Latin or White (god forbid), I literally have Indian women, older Indians, and Indian guys trying to interview me on that stuff like it way out of the ordinary. <br /><br />Like when you see Asian men who are insecure all over the internet (I have been guilty of this), you can almost always pin it back to the social circle. Their parents telling them not to go after White women because they are out of their leagues yet encouraging their daughters to go after White men. <br /><br />I had my parents tell me face to face that a White woman doesn't want anything to do with an Indian man which literally screwed my inner game up.<br /><br />Your blog post resonates this blog post here:<br /><br />http://reesarch.wordpress.com/2013/03/25/majority-of-people-do-not-want-to-see-you-succeed/Mister Gee Cuehttp://www.reesarch.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4530499403094274572.post-83152935244955049062013-04-14T01:21:36.701-07:002013-04-14T01:21:36.701-07:00Well said. I'm glad I don't live near any...Well said. I'm glad I don't live near any family member either.Jimmy Yuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13072495511585702002noreply@blogger.com