Wednesday, March 6, 2013

Types of PUAs


Here are the main types of PUAs out there:

 1.  The Keyboard Jockey / Wallflowers
They are always talking about theory and tends to be annoying and awkward as fuck.  Since these people never go out, they never have real life stories to tell.  Also, they criticize you on the stupidest shit even though you are already making out with a girl.  "Yo dude, your angle was off by 10 degrees!  You're showing too much interest!".  Yeah, its hard to hang with these guys, please ditch them.  A lot of these guys never get good and end up bitter and quit.

2.  Normal Dabblers
These guys are relatively normal but they aren't serious about pickup.  They go out with their buddies and maybe open 2-3 sets for the night and call it quits.  There is nothing really special about this group.  Because their lack of ambition and number of sets opened, these guys usually never get good.

3.  The Uncalibrated Approach Machines
These guys are what you call synthetics however they never learn from their mistakes.  They tend to only have PU friends and lack a social circle.  They are more advanced than the keyboard jockeys because they actually approach but their sets tend to not go very far because they creep girls out.  The lack of normal friends and social circle prevent them from being chill, normal, and have the ability to vibe.  These guys have shed off most of their approach anxiety however when they approach girls they come across usually way too high energy and usually open with stupid high fives, the RSD claw techniques, and spin moves that usually makes the girls feel uncomfortable.  Best cure for them is to hang out with naturals or synethetics that are much more advanced.

4.  The Naturals
These guys always seem to be able to get girls and pull but whenever you ask them a question, they give you a stupid broad generalized answer.  These guys aren't true PU per se but you see a lot of them in the club.  Its always great to befriend naturals as they tend to have a larger social circle.  Naturals tend to have humor, good looks, and also are generally very calibrated.  They tend to not open a lot of sets like typical PU guys but rather look for indicators of interest and approach invitation from girls that appear to already be into them.  Using good looks and preselecting girls who already like them, they tend to be more efficient.  Its simply the law of least effort.  Never ask naturals to give break downs of your specific questions or sticking points.  They won't be able to answer them.  Simply observe and learn from naturals through mirroring; it’s the best way to learn from them.  You can learn a lot of vibing, humor, inner game, and being chill from naturals.  Befriending naturals can be hard.  They already have rich, good looking, or high status friends.  You have to find something of value to provide them or else there is no reason for them to hang out with you.  Everyone has options.

5.  Advanced Synthetics
These guys are what you call guys who started off as synthetics but eventually became good.  They tend have both hardcore synthetic friends but they also a lot of natural friends.  Learning from both groups, you get the best of both words.  The synethetics provide influences on core concepts, theories, and the structure of game while the naturals provide elements of vibing, being chill, and natural humor.  Advanced synthetics usually have dropped routines and are capable of organic conversations.  From the outside, they look like naturals in the way they talk, but you know they started off not being one because they still use PU terminology.  Obviously when it comes to learning PU, advanced synthetics are the ones you definitely want to make friends with.

Thursday, February 28, 2013

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Quitters Gonna Quit

PUAHate.com is a funny site.  Its where all the reject losers of PU go to whine and cry.  A lot of guys on there are quite tech savvy and like to feel better about themselves by attacking the people who actually succeed.  Its worth reading for the LULs but if you have bad inner game issues and if you aren't already normal in the head, please avoid that site; it can fuck with you mentally.  You might end up in a really negative place.  But anyways, I come across threads like this.


Dude opens 50 sets and then proclaims that PU doesn't work  (Btw, the dude needs to also take a spelling and grammar bootcamp).  Are you fucking kidding me?  50 sets = 1 weekend of practice.  Do you get good at anything over 1 weekend?  Its like a dude getting his ass kicked at his first week of karate class and then concludes its not possible to learn martial arts.  Good, keep it that way.  I'm glad that the failure rate is 95% as it currently stands; better for me and better for the guys who are actually committed.  If you're going to commit, fucking follow through.  If you are going to creep out some girls, might as well keep going till you become good enough that girls actually enjoy your presence.  Its your way of paying back.  Seriously, PU is literally a fresh batch of newbies every 3 months, they quit after failing and then they're replaced by a new set of newbs every 3 months.

Sunday, February 24, 2013

Looks

Looks aren't everything but it sure fucking helps.  Moral of the story?  Workout, brush your teeth, get some cologne, get a nice haircut, read GQ magazine, and on top of that sarge at least 2 nights a week.  Looks and game synergize each other.  If you are good looking but you are a complete chode, its not going to help.  If you got great game but you are uglier than Smeagol, you probably won't do that well either.  But a little bit of looks and a little bit of game, you can go a long ways.




There was absolutely no verbal game spat on this conversation.

Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Google Loves Me

I guess when you type in "PUA Infield" into Google, the top video listings include 4 of my videos in it.  I am honored that Google puts my PUA videos in front of Mystery.  I guess he forgot to DHV to Larry Page (Google CEO).


Monday, February 18, 2013

Peacocking for a Discount

Now that "Thrift Shop" came out by Macklemore, I wonder how many non PUAs are out in the club peacocking and strutting their new style LMAO!


Monday, February 11, 2013

Bruno Mars is a Lamer

You can't really comprehend how bad social conditioning really is until you hear Bruno Mars on the radio. Seriously, if this guy wasn't famous and had a good voice (LOL), he would be the epitome of a beta loser.

Grenade Song 
I'd catch a grenade for ya
Throw my hand on the blade for ya
I'd jump in front of a train for ya
You know I'd do anything for ya

Locked out of Heaven
You bring me to my knees
You make me testify
You can make a sinner change his ways
Open up your gates cause I can't wait to see the light
And right there is where I wanna stay

When I was Your Man
Hmmm too young, too dumb to realize
That I should have bought you flowers and held your hand
Should have gave you all my hours when I had the chance

The Lazy Song

Today I don't feel like doing anything
I just wanna lay in my bed
Don't feel like picking up my phone, so leave a message at the tone
'Cause today I swear I'm not doing anything


Then in his next song, he magically wants to be a billionaire!

How do song writers get away with writing such stupid shit.  Do you know when this type of crap works?  When you are already so attractive and so high value that the girl is intimidated by you and that the only way you can make it closer to her level is if you act fucking AFC.  But if you were that attractive to begin with, you wouldn't be doing PU would ya?

Sunday, February 3, 2013

Pickup As Self Development

Pickup is a very very very small subset of self development.  It alone will not make you a happier person.  If you're an asshole, it wont fix it.  If you don't love yourself, it wont make you love yourself. If you have bad habits, it wont fix them all.

Just like everything in life, you are only good at whatever you practice, and its very specific.  Working out your arms won't give you massive legs.   Think about pickup.  For most interactions, they last anywhere from 0 - 10 minutes.  From the sets that hook, they can last anywhere from 30 minutes to day 2's and even maybe up to day 4 or 5's.  But that is the bread and butter of what pickup focuses on... the early stages.  It will absolutely not help in long term relationships.  It won't help you make true life long friends unless you specifically work on that area.  Why you ask?  Because you are focused on the initial early stages of interaction.  The inside always comes out and therefore no matter how interesting or how awesome you appear, people will eventually see through you.

For me, I'm glad I am in the age of my life where my education is complete and my career is stable, I can actively work and cultivate areas of my life that I chose.  Its important to have balance hobbies.  Here is a breakdown of my current weekly schedule:


  • Work - 40 to 45 hours a week, Monday to Friday.  Yes, its what pays the bills.
  • Gym - 5 hours a week (3 times a week).  Starting Strength, bench, deadlift, squat, military press, pullups, cleans, and other free weights.
  • Hobbies - 8 - 10 hours a week
    • Photography
    • Research / Travel - compliments photography as well as pickup
    • Learning to dance (Chi @ http://www.clubdancelessons.com/)
    • Video games (Habits never change! Heroes of Newerth, Team Fortress 2, Diablo, Starcraft)
    • Investment and building wealth
  • Pickup - 8 - 13 hours a week
    • Sarging - 8 hours a week (Friday and Saturday)
    • Side job - 5 hours a week (Coaching, building YouTube and Blog)