Friend Zone of Death

I was sitting at Denny's at 4am after love making with an awesome girl that I had number closed in July of 2011.  I got her number then but was only in town for a week because of my high school reunion so I wasn't able to hang out with her until now due to logistics.  Thank Facebook and my aesthetical physique pictures for keeping us in touch.  It is not advised as a rule of thumb to wait this long for a Day 2 haha.

I clearly remember the approach back then, it was an awesome.  I shouted her down as she was walking into the bathroom.  We talked for a bit but she really had to go so my friend and I waited for her and her friend to use the bathroom and come out.  The conversation was great, she knew sign language and a story behind why.  It was one of those interactions where you actually learn something and you are enthralled by the conversation itself.  You run into so many lame sets were girls are absolute retards that a set like this is so refreshing.

Post coital conversations over food are the best.  They are the chillest most genuine conversations ever.  After everything is done and done, you just end up being yourself.  There must be some sort of brain chemical released that makes you uber relaxed and chill.  This is also the time when girls open up and tell you their past relationships and all the lame dudes they met.  We were telling stories of dating and what our criteria for selection were.  She told me her criteria were:

1. No body hair
2. No snoring
3. No drugs
4. Takes care of himself
5. Family oriented
6. And a great cook.....

She had told me that she had a personal chef for a year and a half.  I asked how much she paid and she said "nothing".  It was a guy friend who had cooked for her every day.  I told her that no guy would ever do that unless they were sexually interested.  I asked her if he had ever tried to kiss her and she said yes during parties when they drank but she would just laugh and push him away.  When she broke up with her bf, she would call this guy and he would put his phone in his pocket so she could fall asleep to his phone.

My god, this dude cooked for her for 1.5 years! That's 18 months!  That's 550 days!!   I had been with her for 1 day before we got intimate.  If that dude had learned cold approach for 1.5 years, it still would have taken less time!  You can't really blame the girl, the dude offered himself.  Poor guy.

Getting Complacent and Soloing

When you start getting good, you start to get lazy and complacent.  Going out with wings every night is a ton of fun and getting laid recently kills your drive to go out because your sexual drive is satiated.  Thats basically whats happening to me this week while I am on vacation and just sarging with friends this whole time.

Its time to do a fucking night of soloing.  Yeah, I dread it as I am typing this but reviewing back, every night I have soloed, magical things have happened and I always learn something new.  Time to put on my big  boy pants on and go sarge up Bellevue.  Getting yelled at by some snobby pretentious girls of Bellevue will be good for my soul.

Gym Sets

I don't know how much my physique plays into a factor but the gym is an amazing place to open sets.  I have an 80% hook rate and I probably number close at least 60% of the time.  This has been field tested in San Diego, LA, Vegas, and Seattle.

A lot of girls screw around at the gym, or they are chatting with a friend, stretching, or doing some stupid machine workout; in essence, bored as fuck. Yes most of them have earphones on but as soon as you go up and talk to them, they will take them off.  It was a big AHA moment after I started getting more gym experience.  Girls look unfriendly and unapproachable, but when you do, they tend to open very well.

Don't approach girls on treadmills because the body positioning makes the interaction weird.  You end up looking like a creeper at her side and she would have to twist her neck sideways to look at you.  Its really bad, don't ever do that!

Here are my observations:

• No dude ever opens at the gym PERIOD.  This leaves you no competition and no AMOGs to worry about.
• Chicks are already stationary, thus making it easier to hook.
• Going direct of contextual makes it easy to open.  If you run out of stuff to say, you can just talk about workouts.  Its easy to transition to sexual topics since girls love working out their legs and glutes.  Seriously, most of my openers are just observational / funny openers:
• "Omg, its funny guys never work out their legs"
• "Seriously, I have never seen a girl go ATG on the squats like that"
• "Dude, your workout is way too distracting, you're going to have to stop"
• "You are the most hardcore girl here, I see you every time I am here"
• "Damn, look at those guns, will you be my body guard?"
• "LOL, every girl does the oblique twister, its just an excuse to check out guys!"
• "Its funny all the male personal trainers here make girls do ridiculous glute and leg workouts"
• Absolutely no bitch shields again because the girls never get approached.
• Yes, every dude in the club will be STARING at you.  You better have balls and be able to withstand that many eyes on you or GTFO.
• You might want to spread out your approaches between a few workout sets.  I usually open 2-3 girls max.  Since everyone at the gym is always looking around at other people because that's what people do, you don't want to be that guy that just opens set after set like a cannonball in Vegas, it gets too noticeable.  Like all day game, it requires more finesse and calibration.  Don't do stupid shit because you are likely to go to the same gym many times and you are likely to see the same people over and over again.  Its not worth getting banned from a gym for being a creeper.  You don't need to be that physical, just get the number and bounce.  Maybe invite her to get some food afterwards if shes down.

If You Can Game in Cali, You Can Game Anywhere

People will always tell you that their city is the hardest place to game.  Bullshit.  Southern California is by far the hardest place to game anywhere.  Yeah you might find some obscure city where women hate men, but you get my point.

If you can deal with icy, pretentious women of LA, you can deal with women anywhere.  There is just no better place to develop a thick skin.  Don't believe me?  game in Hollywood for a year and then go to somewhere like Seattle or Portland.... or even better the Midwest or Austin Texas.  Its so easy to open its retarded.  The girls are so down for conversation.  Also the guys are far less aggressive and a lot more beta.  I went out to Capitol Hill last night in Seattle and I opened a guy /girl 2 set.  The dude was so frustrated that the girl was talking to me the whole time but he couldn't do anything because I simply plowed over him I and was more interesting despite the fact they were friends..

Seriously dude, move to Southern California, learn the skill/game whatever, and then go to the Midwest and find yourself a hot blonde country girl to marry haha.

Tucker Max is Awesome

On my road trip to Washington, I finally downloaded Tucker Max's, "Assholes Finish First" and "I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell" audio book.  It was read by the author, Tucker Max himself.

This guy is a legend.   His entire book(s) is literally a collection of his lay reports.  I mean why would anyone read the field reports of newbies on dorky ass PUA forums when they can read this guy's epic adventures.  This guy is the embodiment of a Natural with the lay count of probably over a thousand.  The stunts he's pulled off just boggles my mind.  On top of that, he is a great writer, a Duke law grad, and he is funny as fuck.  Seriously, his book puts Neil Strauss' "The Game" to shame.

I was literally laughing my ass off listening to this book.   He talks about his experiences with all kinds of women, their psychology, how he reads them, what issues they have.  I literally had to pause the audio book to jot down some of his amazing banter lines, witty comments and comebacks.  What more can you want in a book?  Seriously, if you haven't read this book, stop whatever you're doing right now and get it.  Do me a favor, get the audio version because its a lot funnier when he reads it and you get more of his essence.  I haven't read PU material in over a year, and I would say I'm glad I didn't skip this.

Female Comedians

Okay, I learned my lesson. Never take a girl on date to see a female comedian. There is a 50% chance the comedian will complain about relationship issues and blame men for all their problems. Sets a weird vibe for the rest of the night.

 One part was funny though. She imitated how Black, Hispanic, White and Asian guys hit on her. When she got to the Asian part, she said: "They actually don't hit on me, they are too busy hanging out with their 9 other buddies". LOL! So fucking true. But deep down, I'm saying, she never met me.

Hitler Hates Indirect Hahaha

Funny Text

Had to share haha...

Free Comedy Show (Hollywood)

Take a girl you like out on a date (For those of you who live near LA).

FOR FREE TICKETS:

JUST CLICK THE EVENTBRITE LINK FOR WHATEVER SHOW YOU WANT TO ATTEND: http://

- Tues (12/4) 8pm: http://hollywooddec4th.eventbrite.com/

- Tues (12/4) 10pm: http://fantasycomedy.eventbrite.com/

- Wed (12/5) 10pm: http://hollywooddec5th.eventbrite.com/

First In-Field Coaching Session Tonight

I had three guys signed up for LA sarging tonight.  One had asked to see my demo skills before he wanted to commit to paying for the night.  He was sold after 5 minute haha.  I seriously think my game goes up when people are watching me, kind of like at the gym where I lift more.

I asked everyone if they have taken official bootcamps before.  One said he took another bootcamp and it was horrible.  The instructor never demoed and actually stole a girl he opened.  When he finished sets, the coach wasn't around to give feedback.  Seriously in my opinion there's so much marketing bullshit in the PUA industry that someone new to the community would have no freaking clue which company is legit and which company just sends their instructors out to do random shit like getting bottle service and drinking the night away.

All three guys were pretty cool.  Two were engineers and one was a marine.  They seem to have their life handled and everyone had pretty chill normal vibes.  They just need more field experience and learn how to be more flirty and show more intent as well as being more persistent in set.

Indicators of Interest Vs. Compliance

We tend to gauge how much girls like us based on the amount of IOIs.  This is typically the case.  The more a girl gives you IOIs, the more compliance she gives you, and the more she likes you.

There of course are always the exceptions.  There are girls who flirt with EVERYONE.  Some times it seems super ON and it seems like she really likes you.... then out of nowhere she randomly walks off on you or she refuses simple requests like you asking her to move 5 feet.  Fake IOIs.... I hate it lol!!!  When you're a newbie, you tend to relish in this warm basking glow of IOIs when in fact its fake and you're just wasting your time.  A guy like me would just keep escalating until blowout to reveal her true fake nature haha.

On the flip side.  Some girls have a terrible time showing interest.  They tell you they don't like you.  They tell you that you're stupid or that you're not funny.... yet magically they do everything that you request.  You ask her to go grab a drink, she follows.  You ask her to go to the dance floor, she comes.  You ask her to come out of the club to get food she agrees.  I have no idea why some girls are like this.  Maybe they got hurt in the past showing too much interest and now they act uninterested as a defense mechanism of some sort... who knows, I'm not a mind reader.  But I guess the moral of the story is.... don't rely on IOIs and don't leave just because shes not showing a lot of interest.  Test out her compliance.  Will she hold your drink?  Will she let you put your arms around her?  Will she move around with you?  Will she sit down with you?  Will she let you kiss her?  Will she venue change with you?  One time my wing saw this short girl stand on her tippy toes to get closer to me so she can hear me.  Talk about huge compliance there.

Always gauge the girl based on how compliant she is and not purely based on how much she smiles at you etc.  If you think about it, whats the biggest compliance of all?  Yep.

This thing happened to me in Vegas last week.  Met this girl that told me she didn't like me at all and that I was a lame dancer and that I was a square for not drinking.  Even after the LR she STILL told me she didn't like me.  I'm just going on a hunch here... I'm pretty sure she likes me.

Vegas for Thanksgiving

Going to Vegas for Thanksgiving to hang out with some fellow Canadians who don't celebrate it and also other people whose families don't love them hahaha.

This time I'll be staying at the Cosmopolitan which is so dope because Marquee Nightclub is right inside it.  Talk about great logistics!

For some random reason, I saw a telescope on sale on Amazon and I bought it so I will be bring that along.  It will be a weekend of food, sarging, and staring at the stars or whatever the heck I can find on my balcony haha.

Product Recommendations

These products help.  They are not magic pills.  Expect maybe a 10-25% boost in results.  Do not expect to take this stuff and go to the gym once a month or go out once a month and expect the same level of physique or game.  I have taken all these products personally.



Sexual Escalation Products

This is one of the best products for escalating.  Read it in the blog I wrote.

Kama Sutra Massage Oil









Bodybuilding Products

Protein
Kind of a no brainer.  Its the building blocks of muscle.  You could eat chicken and get the same results but this is mainly for convenience.  Good times to take it includes waking up, going to sleep, a few hours before workout, and immediately after workout.
Optimum Nutrition 100% Whey Protein


Weight Gainer
This is an all in one formula.  Basically it includes both protein, carbs, and vitamins.  Its a lot of calories and a lot of it is coming from the carbs.  This one is the best tasting.  For all you skinny Asian guys who can't get any gainz, buy this.
BSN True-Mass Weight Gainer

Creatine
Second to protein, creatine is the most important supplement to take.  It increases muscle, strength, and gains.  I have used it for 7 years straight without any negative effects.  You only need 5 grams of pure creatine a day but this has other stuff like amino acids.  Drink this during your workout.  It tastes like Koolaid.
Gaspari Nutrition Size On Max Performance

Pre-workout Energy Drink (Pick One Only)
Preworkout stuff is not absolutely necessary.   It does make workouts 100x more fun and intense.  This stuff makes you feel like god in the gym and you push yourself harder.  Better workouts translates to better results.   The stuff inside of here won't directly make you grow.
Cellucor C4 Extreme 60 Servings - Icy Blue Razz- Blue Raspberry

Driven Sports Craze Nutrition Supplement, Candy Grape, 238 Grams

Hardcore Fat Loss
This product is a thermogenic.  It increases heart rate, body temperature, and overall metabolism.  This stuff is also extremely strong and powerful.  Only take 1 pill on the first day.  Even so, this is still not a magic pill.  Don't expect to take one pill and lose 10 pounds on the first day.

Hydroxycut Hardcore Elite


Gentle Fatloss for Maintenance
The following fat loss products are more gentle.  It is something to take on a regular basis.  They are however less of a thermogenetic and less effective than Hydroxycut Hardcore Elite.

Now Foods Green Tea Extract 400 mg, 250 Gelatin Capsules (60% Polyphenols, 40% Catechins, 16mg Caffeine)

MRM CLA 1250 High Potency,180 Softgels


Anti Approach Anxiety Supplements
The following can be found in general vitamin shops and nutrition stores.  These are again, just herbs and supplements.  Do not expect godlike inner game or peak like zen after taking this stuff where girls shit tests are bouncing off you like nothing happened.  It just calms down anxiety and promotes good mood.  If your approach anxiety is a 10/10, it might bring it down to a 7/10.  If you have crippling anxiety and you absolutely can not get yourself out of the house, its worth a shot.  There was a marketed pill for approach anxiety that came out 2 years ago, I took the active ingredient and broke it down.  There were three of them.  I took this on my first month of going out.  It did help a little bit.  By the second and third month of going out, my approach anxiety was manageable enough that I did not need these supplements anymore :).

Nature's Way Ashwagandha, 60 Vcaps
NOW Foods L-theanine, 100 Mg, 90 Capsules
Nature's Answer Passionflower Standardized, 60-Count


Body Tape For Microphone Cords

Braza Flash Tape (1009)

Cologne
I hate it when people say "Its all about inner game".  No its not.  Outer game and presentation matters.  I am sure some PUA gurus have gotten away with lays without showering but does that mean being stinky and looking like trash helps your game?  Not at all.  Just because a few people get away with it does not mean your probability can't be improved by tweaking the way you look and smell.   Before a year ago, I never wore cologne.  I read a lot of forums and gotten opinions and this was hands down voted one of the best colognes out there and I had to buy it to see for myself.

Creed Aventus is one of three things I take when I go out.  The other two being Beano (anti gas haha) and gum.  Bad breathe is just a terrible thing to have.  Seriously, I would rather kiss an HB6 with good breath, than an HB8 with bad breath.

Here is a sample reaction from girls in set.

Get it below from Amazon for discount:

Creed Aventus Creed 4 OZ Millesime Spray For Men

In Field Training

You Want To Get Good, But Here is the Problem:
PUA is Full of Weird People and Costly Rip-Off Bootcamps.

The problem with looking for other wings on PUA forums and lairs is that 99% of guys are weird and terrible and are likely to turn you into a creeper.  Ever read a PUA forum and see some dude with a billion posts giving advice? You think he's awesome and then one day you actually meet him in real life and he is a complete tool.  

Don't even get me started with most pickup companies.  There are no credentials required to be a pickup coach.  You can slap up a website and call yourself one.  Over the years, I have been to many pickup conventions and spoke to many coaches.   I have also had students who have taken bootcamps with other companies.  My friends and I have personally observed many coaches in the field.  There are just tons of horror stories.  I will share with you a few.  Names of companies are of course taken out.

• Coach/Company A has had a girlfriend for many years and hasn't been in the field this entire time and also never demos.
• Coach/Company B has ditched students during bootcamp to game his own girl, and has actually jumped into the girl's taxi cab while on bootcamp!  Personal friend of mine who took the bootcamp and received a debrief of only 10 minutes long.  Company highly focuses on drawing state from within, saying anything that comes to mind but doesn't focus enough on calibration, fashion, and being normal, causing many students to ignore social cues and personal space thus creeping out all girls in the club and not learning from their mistakes.
• Coach/Company C forces students to buy a table during bootcamp, drinks while coaching during infield, and have students use alcohol as a method of isolating the girl (which requires no game) and photographs pictures of students with girls (who are clearly bottle whores) and puts it on social media as if its some actual game accomplishment.  He has also been spotted wall flowering in Hollywood.

Yep, definitely a 4-some going down.  LOL okay bro, lets be cereal, it was the table and the free drinks.

• Coach/Company D makes a lot of in-field videos however the videos are trollish by nature and are mainly for entertainment purposes.  Such videos gives viewers a misconception on the structure of game.  Concepts are dumbed down and tailored towards a younger audience.  Many have mimicked these infield videos and have been kicked and banned from malls and other day time locations.

When you sign up with here, you get me and only me.  With larger companies, you're at the mercy of a random coach, and even worse, a junior coach or even an intern!

Objective of a Bootcamp
A good bootcamp experience includes 6 components.

1. Developing Good Approach Habits:  A student who approaches 3-4 sets a night needs to quickly learn to not waste time between sets and should ideally after bootcamp be able to target 15+ sets a night (or 80% of time in set).  The student will also need to learn how to plow each set and know how far to push each set.
2. Instant Post Set Feedback:  The student should return after the set ends for immediate feedback to avoid repeat mistakes in the next set.
3. Sticking Points Identified:  This can include a whole variety of things including body language, verbals, inner game, elements like teasing and push/pull, and progressing game structure.  This can only be done through the aid of a microphone and wireless transmitter so the coach can listen in on the conversation.
4. Reference Experience:  The idea is to push the student further along in set during bootcamp than previously accomplished while alone.  Gaining reference experience is very powerful because it quickly removes limiting beliefs.  Gaining reference experience without coaching is usually from trial & error and/or luck.  Once something is done and seen for the first time, repeating it for the second time is much easier.  This requires two way communication between the student and the coach.  The microphone and wireless transmitter provides the coach on the status of the set and the compliance level of the girl.  In return, the coach provides text and verbal cues to guide the student while in set without the girl noticing.
5. Debrief: The debrief is ideally done outside of the club environment without distractions and addition stimulus.  The debrief will summarize the sticking points of each student.  This is best done by playing the video of the recorded sets to the students.  It is important to record the students while they are in set because the video allows the student to see himself in a third person perspective which identifies clearly what the student is doing right and wrong.  There are many key critical moments in set for example the opening, the transitioning, the escalation, the blowout.  The video can be reviewed repeatedly and played frame by frame to capture exactly what was done to cause the blowout.  Without video, subtle things like body language, pauses, specific phrases are almost impossible to identify.  They happen too fast and the student has no idea what is doing wrong because he can't see himself from a third person perspective.
6. Homework:  The homework is a summarized email of weekly tasks to be performed outside of bootcamp to address the identified sticking points.  The student must realize that a bootcamp alone without continual infield practice will provide minimal long term change.

I am currently the only coach on the planet to place a microphone and wireless transmitter on every student as well as having the equipment capabilities to record the student infield videos for the entire duration of the night.

Why Most Guys Don't Get Good
The hardest part of PU is the first 3 month hump.    For most people, 3 months is the make or break point.  If you don't see results by the third month, you are statistically likely to drop out.  Have you seen anybody stay on a workout program after seeing no results for 3 months?  It's very rare indeed.  Still don't believe me?  Go to a PUA convention and then go back the next year and see how many people still remain.  The dropout rate is 90 - 95%.  If you are a random guy, there is a 19 out of 20 chance you will quit PU just like everyone else.

Take my personal experience.  I was exposed to PU at age 23 (2006) heart broken from an ex girlfriend and the same sad story that nobody gives a shit about so I will save you the trouble of reading, LOL.  I didn't seriously commit to approaching till I was 28.  I know what you are thinking: "WTF, this buff guy used to be scared of approaching? How can it be?" Well, its the truth.  I was basically a keyboard jockey for 5 years and the only reason I ever got good was because I was fortunate enough to meet a PUA coach that took me under his wing as an assistant.  That is how damn lucky I am.  I worked with him 5 nights a week, I went to every single bootcamp and in-field training he taught, and I transcribed all the teleconference calls.  For two years, I pretty much sold my soul to pickup.  I am what you call a natural with a synthetic understanding of game.  In essence, someone who appears natural when you watch him but yet he can break down game structure.

I used to think "If I just read one more book, if I read one more material, I would make the perfect approach".  That answer is FALSE.  Look at how many books I bought.  It did nothing but paralyze me and prevented me further from going out.  Even going out and standing in a club doing NOTHING is better than reading 10 books.

Look at how many books I bought.  I think I just killed the Amazon rain forest with all this paper.  Stop reading!  It wont help!

You want to become an approach machine as soon as possible so you can start seeing enough results to motivate you further.   As soon as you start getting numbers and make outs, the mentality of going out reverses from a painful experience to a fun one where you're anticipating something great to happen every night.

Sure techniques are important but people don't realize that learning anything requires good habits.  How are habits driven?  Unless you have amazing self discipline, your habits are largely driven by the people you associate and hang out with.  If you hang out with people who approach 20 sets a night, you are likely to approach 20 sets a night.  If you hang out with people who stand around and make excuses, you are likely to do the same.  Remember Mystery's 3 second rule for approaching?  Well, I got a one second rule!

Here are the Services I Provide:

• Unlimited Demo Requests - Seeing is believing.  If you have limiting beliefs, you'll be mind blown.
• You name it, I'll do it. (Blacks / Asians / Hispanic / White / Blonde /  Brunette / Patio Sets / Streets Sets / Dance Floor Sets /  Using Any Opener)
• Makeouts / Lock-Ins / Isolations / Banter / Flirting
• Getting Blown Out For Fun (If you fear rejections, I will get blown out harder than anything you will ever witness in your life and show you its not a big deal)
• State Pump, Push You Into Set - If you're a newbie, you probably love standing around and that's a big no no.
• Entertain and Distract Her Friends
• Body Guard - Guys won't mess with you when I am around; yeah I'm big and buff.
• Remind You of Next Steps While In Set - When you're doing the same thing and the girl is getting bored, I will come and whisper in your ear.
• Introduce You To My Friends in Venues - My friends are not only good with women, they also have amazing skillsets or professions including promoters, dance instructors, other PUA coaches, dating site gurus, etc etc)
• Debrief After - Eat, answer any questions you have, identify your sticking points, shoot the shit because talking to girls isn't serious business.

Here are the Following Sticking Points I Can Help You With:

• Approach anxiety
• Being Unaffected by Rejections
• Body Language / Posture
• Fashion
• False Ejecting (leaving the set too early at the first sign of resistance)
• Finding Venues (Socal / Vegas)
• Running Out of Thing to Say
• Self Amusement
• Kino
• Getting Numbers
• Locking In
• Isolation
• Qualification
• Pull / Logistics

-------------------------------------

Results / Testimonials
Here are some videos of students making amazing progress during bootcamp.  This is only a small subset of what happens on a near weekly basis.


Two students work a 2 set.  One student pulls another girl back to the condo.

Indian student's first time doing day game ever.  Gets significantly better within 2.5 hours of day game infield.

Asian student who is in his mid 40's is still getting results from girls half his age.

Student gets his first insta-date reference experience during Vegas infield. Ends up getting the lay on Saturday at Marquee Nightclub.

Student has trained with me since August, 2013.  Now has double digit lays.

Initially, what was a 30 second blowout after having the set taken over by other guys, under my guidance, the student is able to re-engage the girl and eventually pulling her out of the club.

Still not convinced?  Please visit the results / testimonial page.  Obviously I can not guarantee you a lay on a bootcamp because everyone comes with different starting skills.   For all you scientists, engineers, statisticians, from a overall grand mean point of view, in over 50% of the bootcamp weekends, one of the student pulls a girl outside of the venue.  Also, 60% of the students have gotten laid within 2 months from taking a bootcamp.  I have a private Facebook page in which other students can confirm.

>>Results / Testimonials<<

The training application is for serious enquirers only.  Since I put in a lot of effort on quality training, I only want quality students.  This does not apply to your current skill level but your work ethics.  If you're not expecting to go out a minimum of 2 nights per week or 8 nights a month then it is pointless to get training.  If you're the type of person who is constantly hanging out with your friends, or celebrating birthday parties, or setting up your day 2's on Fridays and Saturdays instead of dedicating to cold approach doing 15 - 20 sets per night, you are not ready for a coaching.  I can only fit 12 people per month on my schedule so I want to pick the ones that really want to change.

As with success with anything.  Do your homework.  Know the timing and dates you want to get training (check my availability).  Make sure you have cleared with your boss if you have odd work schedules.  Check the costs of flights, hotels, etc.  Here is a rough cost guideline for a Friday - Sunday bootcamp (2 nights).  If you have insufficient funds, create an Excel spreadsheet and figure out how much you need to save per month before taking the training.

Flight:  Check airline
Hotel:  Plan for $200
Club Cover:  Plan for $110 (may be cheaper)
Food: At least 50$

Of course Vegas has accommodations from the thrifty to the extremely wealthy.  If you want to spend additional money, that is completely up to you.

Complete the application form in the link below and get a free 30 minute phone or Skype consultation:

(All information are confidential)
http://bit.ly/TF35yv

-------------------------------------

Sign Up For Training

One Time Training
Deposit ($500) / Total ($997)

Continuous Training
Some people may require more than one iteration of training.  The following options allow you to take training one weekend per month or one weekend every other month.  The benefit of long term coaching is more consistency and accountability.  This minimizes reversion after taking your first infield.  Since there are less paper work on my end, students in long term training will receive 10% off.  The minimum commitment for continuous training is 3 infields.  This is 3 months for monthly training, and 6 months for every other month training.

Once A Month Training
897$ per month (10% off)

Once Every Two Month Training
447$ per month (10% off)

Pictures for Online Dating Profile

Don't be that typical guy who takes a terrible self portrait of himself in the bathroom mirror using a cell phone while wearing an oversized t-shirt.  Profile pictures like this gets you instantly deleted.


**Don't be this guy!**

I have been doing photography for many years.  I have PRO Canon SLR camera with a 50mm 1.4 aperture lens, perfect for portrait photography.  You can find my ModelMayhem page here:

http://www.modelmayhem.com/2744512

I have also gone on numerous dates from using PlentyofFish and Okcupid.  My pictures are so solid that I can many times number close with just 3-4 messages.  Good pictures are the bread and butter of online dating.  It is probably the number one investment for online profile.  It is not uncommon that girls get so many messages that they filter and delete simply based on the profile picture alone.  Get the best pictures you can.  Its also important to note there is good photography and there is good photography that builds attraction.  By being a photographer who does cold approach and online dating, the pictures are going to be much more relevant to what you are trying to achieve.

Here are some of my sample pictures:

My package: $150

• 5 pictures total
• 1 casual dressed
• 1 formal dressed
• 1 of you doing a hobby/sport
• 2 outdoors

We will be taking multiple pictures for each scenario at multiple angles.  Afterwards, I will send you the pictures in which you pick the ones you like.  I will then proceed to edit them in Adobe Lightroom.

Apply in the link below:

http://bit.ly/UQkBmw

Training

I am not interested in being a formal PUA coach.  I have a decent job and this is more of a hobby of mine.  I do have a recommendation if training is something you're interested in.

Almost nobody gets good by themselves, it’s a long hard path.  I knew the PUA scene and started reading materials as early as 2006 but I was a keyboard jockey for 4 years.  That was how bad my approach anxiety was.  Fortunately I met DJ Fuji at the 2010 PUA Summit.  I trained under him for about over a year.  Over the course of a year, I have gotten disgustingly good but I have also seen the improvements of his students.  Virtually all of his students are approach machines.  There is a drastic difference between his students and dudes who frequent other PUA forums and its that they are always in set talking to a girl.  In addition, a lot of his students are challenging students who tend to come from minority backgrounds, so if you're not a tall blonde, Abercrombie looking model, he is the man for you.

One of the things a lot of people comment on about me is that I am well rounded.  People ask me how I come up with the coolest banter lines, how I am able to plow through challenging sets, or how I always seem to have interesting hobbies.  This is truly the fundamental skills that I had developed while training with DJ Fuji.  I took improv comedy classes, I traveled, I worked on my fashion, I took acting classes, I hung out with all sorts of interesting people.   The great thing about solid game is that it works anywhere whether its a frat party, a social circle setting, a high end Hollywood club, or some business event.

A lot of people are fixated by Flash Game.  They see a video of some instructor getting instant make outs and they think its cool and that its the epitome of game.  Its not.  Just because they can get girls themselves does not mean they make a great coach.  A lot of these young instructors are just kids who got good.   They are highly irresponsible and they have gaping holes in the other areas of their life.  Some are in their mid 30's and they still live in a van!  What I respect about DJ Fuji is that he is an all around solid guy that you can learn life lessons from.  My understanding of computers, photography, business, websites, and marketing all have increased from hanging out with him and hes a PUA instructor!  Don't let the hair fool you, its just his signature look.

Hes ranked top 15 PUA Coaches of 2012
http://www.pualingo.com/blog/top-15-puas-of-2012-by-pua-lingo/


Hes one of the best public speakers, you can find him year after year at the 21 Convention:

For further information about training, the link can be found here.  Let him know Squattincassanova sent you there.

http://www.taoofdjfuji.com/training/

Strip Club Cocktail Waitress

Opened her at a Pho restaurant in Vegas around 5am.  She was sitting by herself with her work dress on.  She is kind of an older Eastern European woman.  Probably born in Europe and moved to America to chase the American dream and ended up in Vegas.

I always been a fan of seated sets and did really good with girls opening them while they were eating.  Once you sit down, you were with the group.  Plus with eating and chewing, it takes some of the pressure off the occasional silences.

I think if I met her in the strip club, I would have no way in hell gotten her number.  Guys who do strip club game keep telling me this that if you want to pick them up, go to the restaurant near by when they get off work so that they are not in the work mentality of putting you in the customer frame.

Maybe I can convince her to go hike the grand canyon with me.  We'll see.  I can't think of anything more awesome than a scenic hike with a pretty girl and my camera.  Hopefully we at least be good friends and she shows me the inside world of what goes down in a top Vegas strip club!

Too Much Interest

Is it just me or any time a girl shows way more interest in me than I am to her, its a sudden turn off for me.  Sometimes I'll be into another girl who on paper isn't even that beautiful or has that amazing of a personality but simply because they have been unavailable.  My friend told me during text he always waits 2x as long on the response time.  I think it has merit when you are just vibing with the girl. I would break that rule if its logistical related issues.

Meeting Hot Girl Playing Call of Duty!?!

Met this 18 year old at the gym. Opened her by saying "How do you have so much energy at 1 am in morning?" Pretty much any observational opener works at the gym since they are just standing there. Shes half white half Japanese so I talked in Japanese which pretty much hooks. I asked for her number, she told me she met her BF whos actually older than me from Call of Duty and hes an attorney! Either I am getting trolled hard or there is hope to all the foreveraloners playing video games on the internet haha.

Opening some Hard and Challenging Sets in Vegas

Some of them were quite comical, but I manage to turn most of them around.  Especially the Blonde chick.

Button Cam Arrived!

The video quality is okay I guess but the hardest thing is fitting it in my shirt without getting caught.  Its really meant for jackets but its not cold enough for me to be wearing one right now.

Prepare a weekend at Vegas with epic videos... but at the risk of getting caught!  Doesn't matter, I am going to do it anyways!

New Button Cam Ordered

I just dropped 800$ on this button cam thanks to all your donations of $0.  I appreciate all the love guys.  This is going to be sickkkkk.  The button records at 720p but also defaults to black and white in low light settings which means it will be really good in low light environments.  I also got a 7 hour battery pack with a 32 gig SD card so pretty much all my Vegas adventures will be captured.

http://www.pimall.com/nais/pv500touchscreen.html

Damn Logistics

I been getting in the habit of pulling and bouncing outside of venues to other places like food stops.  I swear its always logistics that ruin it.  I have never pulled a SNL unless the set was solo.  Never have I once isolated her from her friend that is in the same room with me.

It was a 3 set.  Two girls and one guy (who was like a retard family friend).  I bounced them all to a burger place and at the end, I couldn't isolate.  Girl 1 drove to Girl 2's house and both of them carpooled to guys house, in which the guy's sister gave them a ride to the club.  WTF LOGISTICAL MIND FUCK!!! I'm pulling out my protractor thinking of how to handle this but FAILLLLLLL.

Slooots gonna slooot

And this is why I carry an audio recorder...

http://bit.ly/OTWws7

Tranny Attack of Doom

Thank God I work out.  Self Defense!

If you're hitting up Southeast Asian girls.  Check their voice, hand size, body tone, Adam's Apple, brow ridges.  Escalate at your own risk!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GgudEP7UnNQ

My Relationship With Working Out

Its a love / hate relationship.  I thank it for helping me get attraction in the club but damn... the high protein diet makes me fart a lot which kills me during a Day 2.  Have you ever tried to hold a fart for 4 hours?  My goodness.  The thing is like jet fuel.  And the thing is, it never wants to come out when you're actually in the bathroom!  My intestines is trolling me seriously.

PUA Convention

I was invited to go to the PUA convention this weekend in Hollywood for free as a photographer and bodyguard LOL!  Its funny 2 years ago, I went to the same convention and nobody knew me but I guess a lot can change in 2 years.

Mystery couldn't make it because he was stuck in Canada.  There were a lot of big names that showed up like Neil, Tyler, Matador.  Pick up really is an art.  You can tell from the coach level that everyone is different yet some how they are all able to do their thing, although some coaches are better than others haha.  There really is more than one style or method.  I think there are certain principles and characteristics that are key but after that, you can express it however you want.  There's usually a lot of Asians and Indian guys at these events but there were a lot less this year.  I even saw two buff Black dudes.  One was an engineer!  He must be secretly Asian on the inside.

One thing you always notice about these conventions is that every year, 90% of the people are new faces.  What can I say, the turn around rate for pick up is higher than a McDonald's drive through job.  Seriously everyone quits within 3-6 months.  One of the coaches straight up said: "95% of you will fail".  And then when he asked the audience to raise their hands if they consistently opened 25- 50 sets a week, out of a room of 100 people, less than 10 people raised their hands and those were the ones that I hung out with LOL!

I'm at the point where I just go to these events to chill and network and meet new people.  These conventions are great because you hear stories and perspectives from other people but like any seminar, going to it alone won't make you instantly better.  Pick up is such an action driven process that if you don't transform your notes into actionable goals, it really becomes a waste of time.  When I went to the PUA convention for the first time in Sept 2010, nothing had changed for 4 months until I actually started approaching in Feb of 2011.

The girl in the picture is Style's new girlfriend.  Btw, is it just me or is Style the only one from the original Game who doesn't look like hes aged a single day?  Look at his face, hes got less wrinkles than me!  Everyone else just got fat and old lol.

She Stole My Monkey

Went on a day 2 at a comedy show with a Russian girl I met in Vegas.  She saw my stuffed Monkey in the car and had to play with it.  She actually took it home because she loves Monkeys.  Before she left however, I told her I want it back before I go to Vegas next week, and she agreed.  Seems like a legit reason for her to come over to return it.  Hopefully she comes through.  I think its good to have props laying around.  Its kind of like peacocking except you're not wearing it.  Girls have an excuse to play with whatever object it may be.  I get this text from her on my drive back and my Monkey is on her bed LOL!

Here is the Monkey I got in Vegas....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iAgFniuD3bk

PUA Convention Sept 14-16

I'll be at the PUA convention in Hollywood Friday, Saturday, Sunday this weekend and then going out clubbing at night.  Some of the biggest guys like Mystery and Tyler Durden will be there.  Hit me up in the comments section if you are in the area or need a wing.

http://www.ultimatepickupartistconvention.com/

If you sign up, let JTR know Squattincassanova/Enthalpy sent ya.

Meeting Naturals

I just met a natural today.  Not just any natural.  Hes a 6'5 Abercrombie model look alike who basically knows all the the club bartenders and also is in business school at SDSU.  God there were so many hot girls at SDSU, seriously you could sarge the campus and it would be full of HB8s or above.  Its also sorority rush week, these poor girls have to wear dresses in the middle of 90 degree weather, LOL!

How did I meet him?  I met a girl at a pool party.  I took pictures of her and we became Facebook friends.  Apparently shes boning him.

He basically promotes certain club events and also party bus gigs and heard that I am a good photographer. Here is the thing, when you want to hang out with cool people, you gotta provide value.  Have something that other people want.  For me, photography is one of those skill sets.  It was a potential to meet a lot of cool people and network.  I'm basically getting paid to sarge.  What a great deal.

Getting girls is one of those things.... its super hard for some people... and its sooooo god damn easy for others.  Its like night and day.  These dudes at SDSU throw house parties and its basically guaranteed pull.  They are all probably laughing us "PUAs" for having to sarge every weekend and reading "The Game".

Girl That Started It All

The first and last gf I ever had.  It was long distance LTR of 7 freaking years.  Ex cheer leader, chemical engineer, UC Berkeley grad, white girl personality, she had it all.  Unfortunately like any long distance relationship, things are bound to happen.  Like everyone else, my perception of relationships was the result of social programming and the reality is... its not a Disney movie.  Half way into the relationship, I found "The Game" but since we were still together, I never really got out of the keyboard jockey phase.  I had massive AA up until we finally broke up.  It was a good ride, overall she was a good girl.  I don't think out of the 3500 girls I talk to within the last 2 years, there were many like her.  It was a learning experience.  I'm glad I found the game though.

When I had met her, I knew nothing about game.  Looking back, I would call it beginner's luck?  She was already attracted to me physically although I was much skinnier back then.  But what really made her bond with me was the fact we built deep rapport.  We would have hour long conversations on the phone, and we both had difficult childhoods.  One of the key aspects of Game was to share vulnerabilities.  I showed her mine and she showed me hers.  We instantly bonded.  But up until then... the sexual part was missing.  And I will always remember this quote.  Somehow in a conversation, "fuck your brains out" was brought up.... and I responded, "I have a lot of brains to fuck out".  Boom.  Hooked even more, she became my girlfriend.  Sure it was pretty awesome, but again, it was all dependant upon chance.  It was the hand of God (I'm not religious) that brought us together.  Talk about luck.  And its crazy to think this is how most people end up together.  Now, I know its more important to be able to change the course of the interaction so its not dependent upon fate.

Best Time for Opening Sets (Night Game)

Just from my experience, 11pm-12:30pm is probably the best window for opening sets.  Before 11, its too early and people are still getting in the club, moving around, and finding their friends.  Its rather hard because there are so many moving sets.  A lot of times they are checking out the club or getting a drink and its hard to hook a set with a super short time window.

When its too late, the girls are tired, drunk, irritated from being hit on by chodes, and also their feet hurts so they are usually sitting on some random object holding their shoes.  This makes it difficult for me to isolate them because their feet hurts and they don't want to move.  You basically have to build enough attraction to over come their feet pain.  I have always found drunk / tired girls to be extremely hard sets simply because their brain just cant handle the conversation.  It pretty much breaks game principles since you can't really build attraction or comfort because their brain is pretty much gone.  The only rare exception I have found is if they are extremely physically attracted to you.  In that case, escalation is extremely easy haha, especially on the dance floor.

Looking back at all my great nights with girls that I really connnect with.  I met them between 11pm-12 am.  I get full isolation with them, and the interaction lasts 1-2 hours or I pull.  Some times logistics fail me and their friends pull them back, and if its already 1pm or 1:30pm, I am usually shit out of luck for the rest of the night.  Vegas it’s a bit later but seriously, after 3pm…. sets usually get retardly stupid.  Maybe its my style.  I'm not the guy that follow girls to the bitter end like jumping into their cab with them like Tyler does.  If a girl doesn't remember me the next day, I don't think its worth it.

Doing Numbers Game and Screening in Vegas

One of the reasons I got good was because I was forced to plow early on.  I had a strict rule of plowing every set to death until the girl either left or told me explicitly to leave.  What I had learned from that is to be able to withstand pressure and to be able to generate content even when I am out of state.  Its basically good practice habits early on in the game.

The reality is.... sets that tend to start well.... tends to end well.  I'm talking on average.  Sure bad sets can be occasionally turned around, but if I look back at MOST of my lays, they have all opened very WELL.

For a newbie, I would definitely advocate plowing.  Its a must.  But once you get into the intermediate stage, some times its really not worth the effort of plowing a luke warm or even a cold set.  I can easily plow a set for 20 minutes and it goes no where.

When you go to Vegas, top clubs like Marquee and XS can fit literally 4000+ people in there.  That's 2000 girls!!!  Now if I plow every set for 20 minutes for five hours, I would have approached only 15 girls (assuming a set didn't just take off amazing).  Since I am in Vegas for 2-3 days, I noticed its much funner to do fast sets and just bounce if they don't escalate quickly.  I will spend maybe 3-5 minutes and if I don't see heavy IOI or compliance or I can't isolate her, I will just bounce.

This has worked wonders for me this last few weeks in Vegas.  Every night, I was able to screen screen screen for the first hour, find a girl that really likes me, and be in set for at least 2 hours with a girl.  I had heavy makeout and I was able to bring one back to the hotel.  To be honest, some girls just like you right off the bat.  Its really not even pick-up or any techniques.  Some times she likes you physically or you guys just click.

ONE-ITIS With Every Girl

Its typical to have one-itis with a girl back in the day when you were a newb and you had that scarcity mentality.  But damn, I still get one-itis with like every girl I meet (okay, so not every girl, but the ones I like, which is quite frequent).  How is this possible!?? LOOOL

I was just in Vegas this last weekend (again two weeks back to back) and yup, sure enough... got one-itis again.  These Asian girls from Vancouver are so different than the Cali girls.  They are actually chill, social, and polite.

People associate pick up with nothing but one night stands... which in some aspects is correct.  However, every time I meet a girl that I like, I still get that warm fuzzy feeling inside like something I always wanted for Christmas and that I want to call them later!  Too bad in Vegas, most girls are from far far away except the LA ones.  Lame.

Vegas Aug 17-18 Short Adventures

Girl was being an ass and back turned on me.  I noticed she had a ton of freckles on her back and I said to her back: "That's awesome you have the constellation on your back.  I can use you instead of Google Maps to find my way home".

I saw a girl with feather looking shirt.  My opener was "Hey, are you a female Icarus?" LOLs.


Oh, and buy your damn tickets online if you are going to a club in Vegas, makes you skip the stupid long lines.

Might Have Kissed a Tranny (Unaware)

So the girl I kissed below, I found out she had tranny friends.  They all go to the same club and hit on white guys.  Dammit my Trannydar is usually pretty good, I even spread out her hands and checked out her hand/fingers. Her Adams apple seemed non existent.  She denies being a Tranny but I am skeptical.

Another reason not to hit on Asian women.  I think I am going to avoid all southeast Asian women from now on.  Bahh...  Gotta be careful in large cities.  FML

Looks and Online Dating

Dating companies that say looks don't matter are bullshitting you. Looks absolutely matters. A particular look may not work on every girl, but if that girl likes YOUR particular look, then you are basically playing "not fuck up game". Don't be that 400 pound keyboard jockey. In fact, if you are way out of shape, doing 50% gym / 50% sarging may yield faster results. Some times online dating becomes stupidly easy. Below is an example. The three best things you can do is:

1. Workout
2. Learn photography
3. Cold approach

Basically get the number on Thursday, call and set up a date Friday, Saturday, or Sunday. Your cold approach will make you shine during the date and basically end of story.


 

Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Get Punched in the Nuts

Yeah, drunks Asian girls... -_-;

You want to know my game?  Its screaming "Hey!" every 5 seconds lolol!  They are so damn ADHD that they have the attention span of a squirrel.  Another thing I do is misinterpret or force frame the girl for hitting on me or making sexual advances.  This time her hands glide near my nether regions accidentally and I call her out for stroking me.  She denies that accusation and back hand slaps me in the gonad!!!  What an evil woman.  I took that opportunity to excert my kino dominance and grab her.

Great Latina Set Saturday

I'm going to put up the audio for this later.  It was a great night.  Saw her and opened her while she was in a 4 set sitting down.  I played everything right.  Frame controlled her and asked her if she was independent or if she had to stay by her friends the whole time.  She said she was independent so I isolated her.  Then I isolated her again to the fire pit.  In the middle somewhere she had to go to the bathroom, it was a good reason to number close her since I told her if she got lost, I can find her again.  She easily complies.  Some how I talked about food and she got excited about this burger place because apparently in LA there was a really good burger joint too.  I convinced all of her friends to go.  By this time I had made out with her before she had bounced to get food with me.  I think its critical to get a makeout with girl before bouncing venues because you don't want to be suckered into a platonic vibe getting food.  She even paid for my food, what a nice gal!  (I tried to pay for my half and she just gave me a weird look lol.  I think the next time a girl offers to pay, I should just thank her and kino her rather than looking like an idiot trying to pay my side, she obviously wanted to pay because I am too sexy and alpha and she wanted to be appreciated for doing so.  I have come to the realization that women are so different.  Some are totally generous and some are total gold diggers, it just all varies)  At this point its 3am and these chicks were tired and her friends just fucking ditched her lol.  They gave her the hotel key card and said "we are tired, we are going to go back".  So she stayed waiting for me to finish my big ass chicken salad lol.


This was a great opportunity to pull but the distance to my car was FURTHER than the distance to her hotel.    If the distance to my car was shorter, I could have offered to drive her back to the hotel and attempted to pull in the car but bahhh, shitty logistics and her foot was hurting in her high heels I just walked her back to her hotel and up to her room, got a make out and left.  I didn't bother trying pulling to Temecula, god damn the next day drive to take her back to LA would have sucked.  But yeah, I really hate pulling in cars because I want to get them to shower first lol.  And pulling back to my place would have been 2 hours round trip the next day.  Meh, great nightregardless.  I'll be in LA soon enough that I can hang out with her when I am there.