I get interviewed by Steve aka Sexual Chocolate. For those of you who don't know, I will be giving a speech in Hollywood for the Ultimate Pickup Artist Convention coming up in September.
If you're interested in going to the Ultimate Pickup Artist Convention Sept 13 - 15, link is below.
http://bit.ly/1d4d53w
Hi Squattin,
ReplyDeleteI wanted to ask about your video on flash game vs real game:
So are you saying one should not be in state while while building connection and following a structure or should one always try to be in state?
And also, you said "its not just doing whatever the fuck you want". So can we not self amuse throughout the process even while building connection?
Yes you should follow a structure. As far as self amusement, its a balance. You should definitely be having a good time and self amuse in the send that you are having fun and you are a source of energy. However, the focus is still PICKING UP GIRLS. I see too many people self amuse for the sake of self amusing. You should self amuse only if it helps build attraction with the girl. For example, if a girl really likes you and is investing to get to know you. It would be a bad time to self amuse yourself and troll her and fuck around while shes sincerely trying to get to know you.
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ReplyDeleteI asked the question because I always like to self amuse myself and I thought I can self amuse myself and joke with them as much as I want when I am talking to girls..? Like it is okay to joke and self amuse as much as possible even when building connection?
ReplyDeleteYou're making big moves. Do you plan on doing this for a living? Been following you when you were on starcraft forums getting trolled by people. Good to see you getting recognition for your hard work.
ReplyDeleteThanks. As my lay count goes up. My APM goes down :(
DeleteHe chose the worst video.
ReplyDeleteI know right?... one where I get yelled at....
DeleteI don't think he likes you because you speak the truth.
DeleteLove your bracelet. Where did you get it?
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DeleteGet the 24 inch one. Its actually a necklace that I wrap 3 times around my wrist.
Love your watch. Where did you get it?
Deletefor the response above...r u referring to my comment on flash game n real game?
ReplyDeleteI just wanna clear if one should try to be in state even when building connection..
Why wouldn't you wanna be in peak state?? Do you want everything to not flow? The problem is you cant directly chose your state. So do what you should be doing and not trying to depend on state. I open better when I'm in state but I sure as hell can open with out state.
DeleteI do like to stay in state. Its just that while building connection I like to self amuse because that makes me happy (in state) and so the girl also feels that fun. (Obviously I know its important to answer her questions for building rapport) I just wanted to know if its okay to mix in Self amusement in connection (to keep the convo fun throughout) while also getting to know each other...
Deleter u referring to my comment on flash game n real game?
ReplyDeletehi squatting, short story here, i been rolling solo at clubs in my area for some time now, since i become
ReplyDeletea regular and had success with a few but i been getting crap from bouncers and other club regulars..
how do you handle? what do you do when you acquired a player reputation?