Thursday, December 27, 2012

Friend Zone of Death

I was sitting at Denny's at 4am after love making with an awesome girl that I had number closed in July of 2011.  I got her number then but was only in town for a week because of my high school reunion so I wasn't able to hang out with her until now due to logistics.  Thank Facebook and my aesthetical physique pictures for keeping us in touch.  It is not advised as a rule of thumb to wait this long for a Day 2 haha.

I clearly remember the approach back then, it was an awesome.  I shouted her down as she was walking into the bathroom.  We talked for a bit but she really had to go so my friend and I waited for her and her friend to use the bathroom and come out.  The conversation was great, she knew sign language and a story behind why.  It was one of those interactions where you actually learn something and you are enthralled by the conversation itself.  You run into so many lame sets were girls are absolute retards that a set like this is so refreshing.

Post coital conversations over food are the best.  They are the chillest most genuine conversations ever.  After everything is done and done, you just end up being yourself.  There must be some sort of brain chemical released that makes you uber relaxed and chill.  This is also the time when girls open up and tell you their past relationships and all the lame dudes they met.  We were telling stories of dating and what our criteria for selection were.  She told me her criteria were:

1. No body hair
2. No snoring
3. No drugs
4. Takes care of himself
5. Family oriented
6. And a great cook.....

She had told me that she had a personal chef for a year and a half.  I asked how much she paid and she said "nothing".  It was a guy friend who had cooked for her every day.  I told her that no guy would ever do that unless they were sexually interested.  I asked her if he had ever tried to kiss her and she said yes during parties when they drank but she would just laugh and push him away.  When she broke up with her bf, she would call this guy and he would put his phone in his pocket so she could fall asleep to his phone.

My god, this dude cooked for her for 1.5 years! That's 18 months!  That's 550 days!!   I had been with her for 1 day before we got intimate.  If that dude had learned cold approach for 1.5 years, it still would have taken less time!  You can't really blame the girl, the dude offered himself.  Poor guy.

Saturday, December 22, 2012

Getting Complacent and Soloing

When you start getting good, you start to get lazy and complacent.  Going out with wings every night is a ton of fun and getting laid recently kills your drive to go out because your sexual drive is satiated.  Thats basically whats happening to me this week while I am on vacation and just sarging with friends this whole time.

Its time to do a fucking night of soloing.  Yeah, I dread it as I am typing this but reviewing back, every night I have soloed, magical things have happened and I always learn something new.  Time to put on my big  boy pants on and go sarge up Bellevue.  Getting yelled at by some snobby pretentious girls of Bellevue will be good for my soul.

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

Gym Sets

I don't know how much my physique plays into a factor but the gym is an amazing place to open sets.  I have an 80% hook rate and I probably number close at least 60% of the time.  This has been field tested in San Diego, LA, Vegas, and Seattle.

A lot of girls screw around at the gym, or they are chatting with a friend, stretching, or doing some stupid machine workout; in essence, bored as fuck. Yes most of them have earphones on but as soon as you go up and talk to them, they will take them off.  It was a big AHA moment after I started getting more gym experience.  Girls look unfriendly and unapproachable, but when you do, they tend to open very well.

Don't approach girls on treadmills because the body positioning makes the interaction weird.  You end up looking like a creeper at her side and she would have to twist her neck sideways to look at you.  Its really bad, don't ever do that!

Here are my observations:

  • No dude ever opens at the gym PERIOD.  This leaves you no competition and no AMOGs to worry about.
  • Chicks are already stationary, thus making it easier to hook.
  • Going direct of contextual makes it easy to open.  If you run out of stuff to say, you can just talk about workouts.  Its easy to transition to sexual topics since girls love working out their legs and glutes.  Seriously, most of my openers are just observational / funny openers:
    • "Omg, its funny guys never work out their legs"
    • "Seriously, I have never seen a girl go ATG on the squats like that"
    • "Dude, your workout is way too distracting, you're going to have to stop"
    • "You are the most hardcore girl here, I see you every time I am here"
    • "Damn, look at those guns, will you be my body guard?"
    • "LOL, every girl does the oblique twister, its just an excuse to check out guys!"
    • "Its funny all the male personal trainers here make girls do ridiculous glute and leg workouts"
  • Absolutely no bitch shields again because the girls never get approached.
  • Yes, every dude in the club will be STARING at you.  You better have balls and be able to withstand that many eyes on you or GTFO.
  • You might want to spread out your approaches between a few workout sets.  I usually open 2-3 girls max.  Since everyone at the gym is always looking around at other people because that's what people do, you don't want to be that guy that just opens set after set like a cannonball in Vegas, it gets too noticeable.  Like all day game, it requires more finesse and calibration.  Don't do stupid shit because you are likely to go to the same gym many times and you are likely to see the same people over and over again.  Its not worth getting banned from a gym for being a creeper.  You don't need to be that physical, just get the number and bounce.  Maybe invite her to get some food afterwards if shes down.

Thursday, December 13, 2012

If You Can Game in Cali, You Can Game Anywhere

People will always tell you that their city is the hardest place to game.  Bullshit.  Southern California is by far the hardest place to game anywhere.  Yeah you might find some obscure city where women hate men, but you get my point.

If you can deal with icy, pretentious women of LA, you can deal with women anywhere.  There is just no better place to develop a thick skin.  Don't believe me?  game in Hollywood for a year and then go to somewhere like Seattle or Portland.... or even better the Midwest or Austin Texas.  Its so easy to open its retarded.  The girls are so down for conversation.  Also the guys are far less aggressive and a lot more beta.  I went out to Capitol Hill last night in Seattle and I opened a guy /girl 2 set.  The dude was so frustrated that the girl was talking to me the whole time but he couldn't do anything because I simply plowed over him I and was more interesting despite the fact they were friends..

Seriously dude, move to Southern California, learn the skill/game whatever, and then go to the Midwest and find yourself a hot blonde country girl to marry haha.

Monday, December 10, 2012

Tucker Max is Awesome

On my road trip to Washington, I finally downloaded Tucker Max's, "Assholes Finish First" and "I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell" audio book.  It was read by the author, Tucker Max himself.

This guy is a legend.   His entire book(s) is literally a collection of his lay reports.  I mean why would anyone read the field reports of newbies on dorky ass PUA forums when they can read this guy's epic adventures.  This guy is the embodiment of a Natural with the lay count of probably over a thousand.  The stunts he's pulled off just boggles my mind.  On top of that, he is a great writer, a Duke law grad, and he is funny as fuck.  Seriously, his book puts Neil Strauss' "The Game" to shame.

I was literally laughing my ass off listening to this book.   He talks about his experiences with all kinds of women, their psychology, how he reads them, what issues they have.  I literally had to pause the audio book to jot down some of his amazing banter lines, witty comments and comebacks.  What more can you want in a book?  Seriously, if you haven't read this book, stop whatever you're doing right now and get it.  Do me a favor, get the audio version because its a lot funnier when he reads it and you get more of his essence.  I haven't read PU material in over a year, and I would say I'm glad I didn't skip this.

Female Comedians

Okay, I learned my lesson. Never take a girl on date to see a female comedian. There is a 50% chance the comedian will complain about relationship issues and blame men for all their problems. Sets a weird vibe for the rest of the night.

 One part was funny though. She imitated how Black, Hispanic, White and Asian guys hit on her. When she got to the Asian part, she said: "They actually don't hit on me, they are too busy hanging out with their 9 other buddies". LOL! So fucking true. But deep down, I'm saying, she never met me.

Monday, December 3, 2012

Free Comedy Show (Hollywood)

Take a girl you like out on a date (For those of you who live near LA).



- Tues (12/4) 8pm:

- Tues (12/4) 10pm:

- Wed (12/5) 10pm:

Saturday, December 1, 2012

First In-Field Coaching Session Tonight

I had three guys signed up for LA sarging tonight.  One had asked to see my demo skills before he wanted to commit to paying for the night.  He was sold after 5 minute haha.  I seriously think my game goes up when people are watching me, kind of like at the gym where I lift more.

I asked everyone if they have taken official bootcamps before.  One said he took another bootcamp and it was horrible.  The instructor never demoed and actually stole a girl he opened.  When he finished sets, the coach wasn't around to give feedback.  Seriously in my opinion there's so much marketing bullshit in the PUA industry that someone new to the community would have no freaking clue which company is legit and which company just sends their instructors out to do random shit like getting bottle service and drinking the night away.

All three guys were pretty cool.  Two were engineers and one was a marine.  They seem to have their life handled and everyone had pretty chill normal vibes.  They just need more field experience and learn how to be more flirty and show more intent as well as being more persistent in set.