Thursday, June 27, 2013

Strategy for Pickup at EDC or Big Raves

  • Hot girls
  • More hot girls
  • Young hot girls
  • Hot girls in skimpy outfits
  • If you like EDM / House music, its a lot of fun
  • Mixed sets are a lot of times girlfriend / boyfriend.
  • There are tons of audio and visual distractions including music, lights, and lasers.
  • Girls are usually heavily under the influence of alcohol and drugs.  They may not exactly be in a listening mode
  • Usually no cell phone reception
  • People are scared of losing the group.  Friends tend to watch over each other.
  • Sets are usually on the move from one area to another
  • No clean bathrooms to pull, all porta-potties and some are usually guarded.
  • Bad logistics.  The event is at a motor speedway and is farrrrr from the Las Vegas strip and likely to be 30 minutes before getting back to the hotel.

As you can see, there are a LOT of fucking cons when it comes to picking up girls at Raves.  Picking up girls at raves are not easy.  I have yet to see someone actually PULL a girl from EDC.

You have to work with what you got.  Some environments are simply more conducive to pulling than others.  Doing pickup at XS nightclub when you're staying at the Wynn makes it a lot easier to pull than if you were to sarge at a funeral.  It doesn't matter how good you are, you're just not likely to pull at a funeral.  It is what it is.

Because of the time constraint and the fact that the sets are always moving, you're not going to get those hour long sets with the girl where you can build massive comfort and rapport.  Pickup at raves is a big fucking numbers game.

Due to the sheer number of people, you gain momentum by doing set after set after set.  Talk to a fatty if you have to in order to warm up.  

The way to open at raves is SUPER HIGH ENERGY.  Have a dumb stupid happy face grin and be dancing while you open them.  Its unlikely you can have too much energy that you blow yourself out of the set unless maybe you are overdosed on drugs.  

The default opener can be "Wooooooo, I love you".  Then call her out for being adventurous, fun, into excitement.  All your sentences should be short bursts or phrases.  They should not be long stretched out paragraphs since the girls are all ADHD mode.

"You're fun"
"Come here"
"Look at me"
"Let me give you a ride"
"We are the sexiest people here"

Then just get heavy kino and you're essentially going for makeouts and quick number closes.  Basically rave pickup is all about state pumps.  If the girl lives in LA or San Diego, I will number close them.  Since the night is going to be crazy, shes not likely to remember you.  Flaking will be high, but those are just the circumstances.  What I usually do is I have my wing take a picture of me and the girl doing something fun.  Then I text her next week with the picture and hopefully she can remember.  I wish I could provide a magic pill but 3 nights of heavy music, drinking, and drugs, 99.9% of girls just won't remember you after a 5 minute interaction.  Heck, even if it was an hour long interaction, I would be money that most girls would forget.

Thats the strategy in a nutshell.  I would only recommend doing pickup at raves if you actually love EDM/ House music.  Otherwise going there would be pointless as cost of tickets are expensive and there are better venue options out there.  If you're not buff and shredded like me, get a cool costume.  Its the only place where peacocking isn't really peacocking!

Hanging out with ViperGQ hehe.

Sunday, June 23, 2013

Electronic Daisy Carnival - Day 2 Update

Its 11am.  Posting some pictures and then taking a nap hehe.  Will post more written experiences and strategies for EDC later.

Thursday, June 20, 2013

At Electronic Daisy Carnival In Vegas This Weekend

Hey hey.  Just a heads up.  I'll be at EDC this weekend.  Finally a weekend just chilling and not
teaching pickup.  Hit me up if you're in the area.  I will be bringing my camera and getting a lot of video hopefully.  If you don't know, this is a big rave where girls dress in scantily home made outfits and guys with aesthetics go to show off (at least my Bodybuilding friends).

I been dieting hardcore for a week.  Dropped down to 8% body fat.  That feel when starving and jittery as fuck on Hydroxycut Hardcore Elite.  Crazy, I dropped 10 pounds in 5 days.  Holy fuck still got the crazy metabolism.  This week I ate only egg whites, whey protein, chicken breast, and raw veggies.  Daily calorie intake is probably only 1500.  Cut out the carbs and as much sodium as I can.  Posting progress pictures later.

ZYZZ, Jeff Seid, where you at?

Sunday, June 16, 2013

Practicing on Asian Girls / Groups

I got an email from a soon to be student of mine.  He was sarging in Vancouver and he got punched in the face by some thug Asian guy because he was talking to their group.  Sigh....

As much as I love my race.  Asian girls and groups (ON AVERAGE) are probably the worst ethnicity to approach and start pickup with.  There are multiple reasons for this.  Feel free to agree or disagree with rationale.

  • A big portion are socially awkward fobs and conversation with them will not improve your game.  Some times they don't know how to do basic things like hand shakes or small talk.  You won't be able to practice teasing and most likely they respond to comfort game.  This is bad with White girls.  You must get attraction BEFORE you do comfort.  Asian girls teaches you the other way around.
  • Asian girls are probably on average the rudest of all ethnicity when it comes to cold approach.  Some girls will flat out put their hands on your face or order you to buy them drinks.
  • I have noticed that a lot of Asian girls lack individuality and succumbed to group think.  Its one of the reasons you see them follow the crowd.  Its rare you see an Asian girl leave her big group and decide independently she wants to go with you to another part of the club.  I feel this lack of maturity.  Exception obviously if they are 30+ years old or have significantly high ratio of mixed friends.
  • Most Asian guys who are in pickup aren't usually very tall.  Unfortunately for Asian guys, Asian girls are probably the WORST when it comes to having strict height standards.  We know height matters but it matters LESS to White girls and Latinas.  For some Asian girls, its a hard fixed rule.  WTFBBQ.  Its like a slap in the face.
  • A lot of Asian guys are very insecure and protective of their female friends.  Even if they have no chance of getting them they will actively try to ruin your chance in the set.  Being cockblocked in Asian groups is astronomically higher than all other ethnicities.

That being said, it can be quite intimidating to open Asian sets as a newbie.  Massive harsh rejections plus the lack of witty banter and conversations from the other end can stunt your growth and motivation.  If you want to grow some big pair of balls and you want to learn to not give a fuck by ALL MEANS open Asian groups haha.  I obviously open a lot of Asian sets because I like Asian girls with White girl personalities but you have to realize with Asian sets, its very POLARIZING.  Either they hate you or they love you.  You have to be able to deal with it.  I have a thick skin so its all fun and games for me.

Friday, June 14, 2013

Weekly Thursday Debrief Video - Vegas Bathroom Sex / Pull

Went to a busy club on Saturday in Vegas.  One of my friend who trains with DJ Fuji bathroom pulled a White girl.  She was down but she didn't want to go back to hotel with my friend because it would take too long.  She didn't want her friend to find out because her friend knew she was dating some guy at the moment.

The bathroom was not in the club.  Club bathrooms have a lot of traffic and bathroom attendants.  This was in the casino slightly outside of the club.

Monday, June 10, 2013

Todays HB10 is Tomorrow's HB6

Most people on this planet aren't into self help.  Hot girls aren't exempt.  As law of thermodynamics states, entropy increase inevitably turns things into poop unless you actively work on it.  (Quoted word for word in my college textbook, srs).

I been going out for 3 years and many things can change over three years.  When you encounter so many girls, you can't keep in touch with all of them.  Most of them are let go and occasionally you meet them again 1, 2, 3 years later.  If you follow me at all, you know I believe in fitness and working out as much as I believe in learning game.  Over the last three years, my physical appearance has changed minimally.  My weight has fluctuated no more than 5 pounds and in general hover around 200.

The girls on there other hand... quite the opposite.  I have met hot bombshell girls on year one (Vegas, San Diego, Halloween block parties) and then on year 2 and 3, I see them again and literally... wtf just happened?  30+ pound increase, significant increase in wrinkles and skin imperfections, and just overall lack of aesthetics.

For a lot of girls, their window of beauty burns hot and bright but extremely short.  They take it for granted.  They never worked for it.  Once they hit 21, its free alcohol, cigarettes, drugs, late night food, free dinners from guys, free this and that, why would they need to actively work on anything?  Lets flip the situation in reverse.  If at a very young age, a hot cheerleader/Playboy Playmate/Victoria Secret model was delivered to your bedroom every night, would you really go through the trouble of reading thousands of pages of PUA books, get into endless newb discussions on PUA forums at 3am in the morning, and then get rejected at the clubs over and over every weekend?  NO you wouldn't!

So what am I getting at?  Am I just writing a post to flame/bash hot girls?  Nope.  I want to plant a frame / mindset you should have when you approach that really hot girl.  Although she may be sitting at the top of the throne in the club and you're fighting in the trenches, just remember that you are consistently improving and your attraction is consistently increasing while hers is steadily declining.  Look at the big picture.  5 years is a very short time when you compare it to a person's entire life span.  The average life span in the US is approaching 80.  What about your 30's, 40's, 50's compared to hers?  Think of all the hot girls back in high school who every wanted.  Where the fuck are they now?  The next time you get rejected, put a smirk in your face as you're walking away... for a hot girl's life is far harder than yours.  Happiness is when you have a goal and your results meets your expectations.  As you're setting bigger goals and getting hotter and hotter girls, she will be fighting to maintain that beauty that is quickly fading away.

Monday, June 3, 2013

Ecstasy and Gaming

Disclaimer:  Ecstasy is an illegal drug.  It may have negative effects on the user.  I am not recommending anybody to use it.  I don't have any and I don't know where to get it.  The information is from what I have
gathered and I am simply sharing it.

Being a fan of both Electronic Dance Music and Pickup, I am exposed to people who have used this drug.  It is something very common in the rave culture.  Using too much of this can probably end up making you into an e-tard.

Basically the reason the drug is used is because it puts a person into a state of euphoria.  It heightens sense, including visual, auditory, and touch.   Lights seem to dance across your eyes, the sounds of music vibrate against you stronger, and any type of touching feels really good.  Massive amounts of neurotransmitters and dumped and you are in a very good mood.

You might ask why are you making a topic about this, isn't this a PUA blog?  This impacts Pickup in an interesting way in that it impacts Approach Anxiety / Bitch Butterfly / Inner Game.  This drug appears to put the user at peak inner game with very minimal approach anxiety essentially through the entire night.  Negative comments from sets will tend to not affect you.  Nothing a girl says can touch you; it is as if you have a bubble of shield protecting you.  Kino practice is likely to improve as you will most likely increase the level of kino under its effects.  The drug does not impact memory as everything in the night can be recalled.  As with most drugs, the mental state most likely can not be recreated naturally. Because the memory is retained the reference experience gained.  Hopefully in future sets and nights you can attempt to recreate this inner game zen-like state naturally and sober.

Another affect is the ability to connect with another person.   For PU beginners, many have problems connecting others and showing interest.  The drug allows you to become very deep with another person and massive rapport and comfort is built.  As stated before, the sense of touch is heightened.  This is also amplified during sex.  However, for many guys, ecstasy causes difficulty in maintaining erection and thus, Viagra is needed.  It also becomes difficult climax thus, the sex becomes many hours long which includes endless breaks involving touching and deep conversations.

The downside?  It probably causes holes in your brain over prolonged use, it causes massive dry mouth, lots of lethargy and lack of motivation the next 1 - 2 days, and for some, a slight depression as dopamine neurotransmitters are depleted.  And of course its illegal.  Plenty of stuff is on the web and there is a Wikipedia section.