Sunday, June 16, 2013

Practicing on Asian Girls / Groups

I got an email from a soon to be student of mine.  He was sarging in Vancouver and he got punched in the face by some thug Asian guy because he was talking to their group.  Sigh....

As much as I love my race.  Asian girls and groups (ON AVERAGE) are probably the worst ethnicity to approach and start pickup with.  There are multiple reasons for this.  Feel free to agree or disagree with rationale.


  • A big portion are socially awkward fobs and conversation with them will not improve your game.  Some times they don't know how to do basic things like hand shakes or small talk.  You won't be able to practice teasing and most likely they respond to comfort game.  This is bad with White girls.  You must get attraction BEFORE you do comfort.  Asian girls teaches you the other way around.
  • Asian girls are probably on average the rudest of all ethnicity when it comes to cold approach.  Some girls will flat out put their hands on your face or order you to buy them drinks.
  • I have noticed that a lot of Asian girls lack individuality and succumbed to group think.  Its one of the reasons you see them follow the crowd.  Its rare you see an Asian girl leave her big group and decide independently she wants to go with you to another part of the club.  I feel this lack of maturity.  Exception obviously if they are 30+ years old or have significantly high ratio of mixed friends.
  • Most Asian guys who are in pickup aren't usually very tall.  Unfortunately for Asian guys, Asian girls are probably the WORST when it comes to having strict height standards.  We know height matters but it matters LESS to White girls and Latinas.  For some Asian girls, its a hard fixed rule.  WTFBBQ.  Its like a slap in the face.
  • A lot of Asian guys are very insecure and protective of their female friends.  Even if they have no chance of getting them they will actively try to ruin your chance in the set.  Being cockblocked in Asian groups is astronomically higher than all other ethnicities.


That being said, it can be quite intimidating to open Asian sets as a newbie.  Massive harsh rejections plus the lack of witty banter and conversations from the other end can stunt your growth and motivation.  If you want to grow some big pair of balls and you want to learn to not give a fuck by ALL MEANS open Asian groups haha.  I obviously open a lot of Asian sets because I like Asian girls with White girl personalities but you have to realize with Asian sets, its very POLARIZING.  Either they hate you or they love you.  You have to be able to deal with it.  I have a thick skin so its all fun and games for me.

33 comments:

  1. hey squatingcasanova, I just ordered a nightvision hidden camera... kinda like your button camera. im gonna start filming my footage in the clubs. your hidden infields really inspired me to start filming. im gonna post it on my youtube channel.... it would be cool if you could comment on some of the footage in the clubs that I will post once I get my hidden camera.

    keep posting youtube videos, you definitely progressed yourself in the club... btw I go out 6-7 nights per week so I will try to get footage every night once I get the camera. peace

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    1. Wow 6-7 nights a week. That epic dedication. For sure I can give you feedback. Keep up the lifting too.

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  2. I never open asian sets, I'm not into asian women + what you just said. With that said, I get opened by quite a lot of asian sets. Me being 6'2" well built 225 pds asian guy, not to toot my own horn but physically, doesn't get much better than that as far as asian guys go. I don't even lift bro.

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    1. cool story bro, tell us again

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  3. http://i41.tinypic.com/nqpz05.jpg

    http://i40.tinypic.com/6suzbm.jpg

    I'm no pro photographer however, not even an amateur phone pic taker.

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    1. If you don't lift, you must be deadlifting your 400 pound girlfriend. HAHAHA

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    2. who taught you how to body build?

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    3. daweism,

      What do you drink besides water?

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  4. I was referred to your site by a fellow pua buddy who said you reminded him of me, lol. My skills are no where on par with yours, but I love my leg works outs!

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  5. I can over look a busted face or an askew personality, but if they're over weight, do not want. My buddy Sambo, Ray Sambo. I made to heavy weight mistakes in my life due to excessive alcohol intake on said nights, never again.

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    1. Just figured out I can reply to replies instead of making new comments each time. How unbecoming of an Asian of me.

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    2. cool story bro, tell us again

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  6. To me Face > Body. But to each their own I guess.

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    1. I would take a girl who works out and has a nice fit body with a eh face over a an average non fit girl with a hot face any day! My weakness are thin girls with a squatter's legs.

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    2. So basically, if I wore pigtails, you would do me up the butt. (Serious Homo)

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    3. Neg, too much test, need more estrogen conversion. I have a thing for tall white girls now. Austin has an abundance of them, thankfully. I'm at Ft Hood, a mere hour north of Austin. Grew up in norcal though, SF girls are absolute B**ches compared to the ladies in Texas, it's night and day.

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    4. How's Major Hasan?

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  7. Texas is the home of extreme temperatures, racist people, venomous creatures, and tornadoes. I'll pass

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  8. Asian people are more racist than anyone IMO. Texans are actually really nice.

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    1. Damn dude. Black people are more racist than anyone IMO. So f'in true. Haha

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  9. Damn dude. So f'in true. Haha

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  10. 5'8 builtfat here.
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    I better brush up on some Krav Maga techniques before pickup. This would be useful, in case some asian thug punches me in the face.

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    1. or you can just sue the guy for money

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  11. Been opening asians for past 2 months during daytime. don't tease/break report the first time you talk to them. Also, I think talking to fobs has improved my ability to always have something to say because of the minimal feedback from them.

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    1. Yeah, makes your monologue better. However, its like talking to a tree. The interactions are so fucking boring. Some times I would even start talking in Japanese or Chinese because their English suck so bad.

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  12. If you break it down more, are some Asian groups worse than others ? I've found Filipino females to be fairly friendly. They are not as Asian looking as some other Asian groups. Ironically they have a Spanish mix to them and have a tendency to have a darker complexion vs. like a Japanese female. I agree with the Asian male groups. Some of them despite having no chance are overly protective like a sibling. It's very uncomfortable and I'm shocked that Asian females tolerate this as it reeks of needy/weak/beta behavior.

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