Best Vegas Clubs for Picking Up Girls

The Vegas scene is changing now tailoring to a younger audience.  Its only been the last decade since mega clubs started popping up thanks to the EDM scene.

There are currently 4 clubs at the top.  They are XS, Marquee, Hakkasan, and Light.  There is going to be a new Drai's opening up in summer of 2014 that is probably going to make these clubs the top 5.  On the weekends, I would probably not go to any other club other than within these selection.

Weekends vs. Industry Nights.
On the weekends, virtually all of the clubs are open.  On the weekdays (Industry Nights), only specific clubs are open on each day.  Vegas is driven by tourism and there aren't enough visitors on the weekdays to go around so rather than having all the clubs compete with each other, only specific clubs are open each day of the week.  As you probably already know, weekends are better.  Generally speaking, tourists are much easier to game.  They are in Vegas to have fun, socialize, and have their crazy moments because its Vegas and they can.

On the weekdays, there are less tourists.  However, you will notice a LOT of hot girls on the weekdays, perhaps even with higher ratio per density than the weekends.  This can be a false illusion.  A lot of these girls are hired guns that are on their off day because every hot girl works on the weekends; its their money making days.  They can be cocktail waitresses, bartenders, dancers, and yes, even hookers.  Because they are locals with connections, they inevitably always have hookups to tables and bottle service.  Its not to say you can't game these girls... they are a lot HARDER.  These girls live in Vegas, seen it all, been hit on a million times every week, probably been taken advantage of by many dudes when they first moved to Vegas and learned their lesson.  A lot of girls are looking for a rich guy to take care of them.  Vegas will do that to ya.  More about this on a later time.  In a nutshell, weekends are better.

Best Days for Pickup
In order from best to least

Saturday - Obviously the busiest and best day of the week
Friday - Close 2nd
Sunday - Still some tourists remaining
Monday & Wed - Marquee Mondays and Surrender/Light Wed are decent because of the venues
Tuesday & Thurs - Probably the two worst nights to go out

Best Clubs Each Day of the Week
Its not just a battle of the clubs anymore but also a battle of the DJs.  Although my top picks are for XS and Marquee, a popular DJ like Calvin Harris, Tiesto, Krewella can significantly make all the hot girls to go Hakkasan or Light.  The latter two clubs have some of the hottest girls, but the venue makes it less ideal for pickup.  More on that in the next section.

Friday - XS, Marquee, Hakkasan, Light
Saturday - XS, Marquee, Hakkasan, Light
Sunday - XS or Hakkasan (if XS closes the patio, go to Hakkasan)
Monday - Marquee (almost always)
Tuesday - Hyde or Pure
Wednesday - Surrender or Light
Thursday - Tao or Hakkasan


Review of Each Club
For each club, I will give a summary plus a rating out of 5 for the following attributes
Size - size and also capacity of the club
Patio - size of the patio
Talkability - quieter areas that allow you to talk
Brightness - ambient lighting so you can actually see people
Isolation Spots - places you can take a girl to isolate or sit down; usually concrete edges around plants
Parking - parking logistics and distance to the club from the parking lot (if you drive)


XS (Encore)  (Ranked #4 in Revenue)
My all time favorite club.  When this place is packed.  Its heaven.  It has the largest patio of any club in Vegas making it great for conversation.  During the winter slow season, the patio may be limited.  During the summer months, this place can have upwards of 4 to 5 thousand people.  The outside patio is a circle and the inner dance floor is also a circle, making a figure 8 shape.  You can loop this figure 8 looking for sets which ensures you to not bump into the same sets over again.  Even the indoor areas have walkways between tables which allows you to open girls who are in tables.  Its slightly on the decline especially in the winter months.  Hakkasan and Light is dicking them over by drawing too many talented DJs.  Also because of the winter weather, the patio is usually limited or closed off.


Size: 5
Patio: 5
Talkability: 5
Brightness: 5
Isolation Spots: 5
Parking: 5 (use east side parking)

Marquee (Cosmopolitan)   (Ranked #3 in Revenue)
This is my close second favorite club.  It also houses a patio outside.  They recently put a green house dome over the patio so that it still stays warm over the winter.  Its one of my go to places when its cold.  The indoor is smaller and the layout makes it challenging to open sets that are in tables because they are double layered in a circle formation facing the dance floor.  The outer table has the back facing the walkway and the inner table is directly touching the dance floor.  The areas are roped off with bouncers guarding it.

Size: 4
Patio: 4
Talkability: 5
Brightness: 5
Isolation Spots: 4
Parking: 4



Hakkasan (MGM)  (Ranked #1 in Revenue)
The biggest new mega club.  It always has the hottest DJs.  Apparently the Hong Kong investor for the club just wanted to fuck all the other clubs over so he decided to pay $100k - 200k every night for Calvin Harris and Tiesto to play.  On average, it probably also has the most hottest girls of any club.  The down side?  Its dark, its loud, there is no patio, and its hard as fuck to game.

Size: 5
Patio: 0
Talkability: 1
Brightness: 2
Isolation Spots: 2
Parking: 2

Light (Mandalay Bay)  (Ranked #2 in Revenue)
Its also one of the newer clubs.  The club has a very simple design... its basically a rectangle.  Its known for its 4 big LCD screen that look like 4 theater screens put together.  It has the best visuals and attracts a lot of EDM fans.  The quality of girls are decent however its downside is similar to Hakkasan and its smaller.

Size: 3
Patio: 0
Talkability: 1
Brightness: 2
Isolation Spots: 1
Parking: 4

Surrender (Encore)
What I like about this club is that its almost entirely an outdoor patio with swimming pools in between.  Its not my top pick on the weekends but its great on Wednesdays especially during the summer because they have night time pool parties.  Its very conducive to conversations.

Size: 4
Patio: 5
Talkability: 5
Brightness: 5
Isolation Spots: 5
Parking: 5

Tao (Venetian)
I have never liked this club.  Its dark, crammed, and loud as fuck.  The layout looks like it was designed by 3rd grader.  The quality of girls aren't that great either.  Its still one of the larger clubs but its declining.  The only good thing is they got the Grand Luxe Cafe in the Venetian which is open 24/7 and you can eat there and talk about how shitty your night was because you decided to go to Tao.

Size: 4
Patio: 0
Talkability: 2
Brightness: 1
Isolation Spots: 1
Parking: 2

Hyde (Hyde)
Hyde is a small and somewhat exclusive club.  There are hot girls there but its almost ALL TABLES inside making it hard to game girls within tables.  Its also really loud.  Would only ever consider going here if you're stuck in Vegas on a Tuesday.

Size: 2
Patio: 0
Talkability: 2
Brightness: 2
Isolation Spots: 1
Parking: 3

Pure (Caesar's Palace)
This was cool back in like 2005 but now its a piece of shit.  The quality of girls is terribad.  The only time you would ever go here is if its a Tuesday night and you don't want to deal with industry girls at Hyde.  Its such shit, I'm not even going to give it ratings.

All Other Clubs
Unless you have a special reason, don't bother.  All the hot girls know where the cool clubs are so they are all flocking to the same places.

Referrals

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Stop Asking Girls for Advice

What do I mean by this?  It doesn't mean if your boss is a female, you should tell her to fuck off.  It doesn't mean if your Engineering professor is female, you refuse to do your energy and mass balance homework.

What I mean is... stop trying to learn serious things from a girl that you just opened... ESPECIALLY IF ITS RELATED TO SELF IMPROVEMENT!  You end up sounding like a herp-a-derp potato and seriously ruin any possible attraction and destroy your set.   I used to do this when I was starting out too so don't feel too bad.  I will give you some examples.

Example 1
You meet a girl who is an image consultant / fashion designer and you think its a good idea to ask her how you should improve your look and how you should change your fashion up a bit.

What shes thinking: "Now that you mentioned it, you do look like shit.  Good job looking like shit bud, keep it up!"
What shes likely to tell you: "I dunno, you look okay, just be yourself"
What you actually learned: ABSOLUTELY NOTHING
What you should have done: Subscribe to GQ, go to a high end store like Neiman Marcus, hire an image consultant, or ask a friend with good fashion.

Example 2
You meet a fitness girl and you think its a good idea to ask her about what types of exercises you should do.

What shes thinking: "Do you even lift bro?  Definitely not alpha male genetics; do not want"
What shes likely to tell you: Probably something stupid like Crossfit
What you actually learned: ABSOLUTELY NOTHING
What you should have done: Talk to Squattincassanova, hire a trainer, sign up for gym, do some research on the internet.

(When I meet a fitness girl, I tease her about her rough hands, or tell jokes that my friends on bodybuilding.com said, or I relate to her.  I'm not talking with the intent of learning anything from her.  As far as I am concerned, I am the pinnacle of fitness perfection even if in reality, I have a lot of improvements to make such as upper pecs, rear delts, hamstrings, etc, etc)

Example 3
You meet a girl who goes clubbing a lot and you don't know much about venues so you ask the girl about her opinions and advice on whats cool around here.

What shes thinking: "Wow strong home-body, you don't look like you go out much; newb"
What shes likely to tell you: "It depends on what you like."
What you actually learned: ABSOLUTELY NOTHING
What you should have done: Yelp, go on the internet, study your venues, go on forums, ask Squattincassanova about which clubs are good.

I actually see this a lot about example three when I take students out to do day game in Vegas.  They inevitably bump into locals since they tend to be single girls running around in the malls because they usually work there, on lunch break, or just grabbing something quick.  If you're not from Vegas and they are from Vegas, don't talk about the same boring stuff that they already know and seen a million times.  Talk about where you're from because that's probably way more exciting.  She would much rather hear you talk about Venice Beach, or Pike Place Market, or Times Square than whats on the Vegas Strip.

Ultimately you opened them, its your job to be interesting.  Talk about stuff that you KNOW that she doesn't because that's what being interesting is all about.  If I meet someone from LA, I will talk about Seattle stuff.  If I meet someone from Seattle, I will talk about LA stuff.  I might tell a joke or tell a few quick things about where they are from to build some rapid rapport but I am definitely not going to blast away with a question stack hoping to learn shit.   When I ask questions in the beginning, its because I usually got a follow up story behind my question (putting the spot light back on me).

If you really want to learn something about a topic that was brought up in set, jot it down on Evernote app via phone and then go research it when you get home.

Obviously, its okay to ask some questions... especially during the rapport building phase.  Just don't get in the habit of asking these questions frequently if the girl isn't already into you.  Self improvement should be a secret.  Keep it a secret between like minded people.  Work on it with other people sharing the same goals.  Don't blast it to the general public.  Nobody cares.  Do you ever see Naturals talk about their setbacks and problems?  Never.  It always appears they are happy with everything in life.

Strip Club Game!

There is nothing more fun than making a stripper waste an hour talking to you before she realizes she didn't make any money!  TROLOLOL.

I didn't really go to strip clubs till I moved to Vegas.  I been enjoying it quite a bit and some times I take my students there after the infield.   This is usually 4am to 7am.  Its good opportunity to practice kino and also getting sexual... essentially acclimating to really hot girls.

Why strip clubs?

• If you live in shitty, remote areas, finding good venues are hard but there are likely strip clubs!
• Usually open all week long.  Some places are open 24 hours including LA and Vegas.
• Really high concentration of hot girls.
• Getting away with a lot of kino that you can't get elsewhere.
• Seeing the reverse and watch girls try to game you.
• Its pretty fun.

Some thoughts

• Obviously you're there to practice.  A lot of girls give out numbers, but its still putting you in the client frame.  Most girls are ADHD and numbers tend to be really flaky and they are usually sleeping during the day.
• You're going to have to get used to saying no.  A lot of girls will talk to you and get you invested, build compliance, and then try to push you to get dances or VIPs.  Remember, they are like female PUAs.  This is where you really need to be able to learn how to say no.  Otherwise, your wallet is going to get thin really quick.  Even I was uncomfortable saying no at first.  This pertains to life and also other girls.  You have to be comfortable saying no at certain times.
• Obviously a lot of IOIs are fake.  Every stripper I talk to magically love Asians....right... we are just the fucking Adonis of all races right?  If she loves you, its not necessarily because your game is tight lol.

Additional thoughts...

• Going to strip clubs and gaming is SUPPLEMENTAL.  You shouldn't be only going to strip clubs.  It will fuck up your calibration and also make you lazy in the opening phase.  In a club, a hard part is opening and getting attraction.  In the strip club, you just have to say "HEY" and they come walking to you.  I have had students who did a lot of strip club game, and have fucked strippers in the strip club but have a hard time in regular clubs.  Why?  Because saying "HEY" in a club to a girl will rarely get them to stop whatever they were doing and focus on you.
• Obviously paying helps if you know what you are doing.  If you're a complete newb, paying is just putting you more in the customer frame.  However, if you're good, paying buys you more time.  Attraction still applies to strippers because they are still girls.  If they like you, you can get away with more stuff.  It is not uncommon for them to make out with you and do a lot more in the VIP if they like you.  One of my students makes a lot of money and usually gets VIP (its like 100 - 150 bucks for 15 minutes or 3 songs but a lot of times girls will stay with him for an hour in the VIP for no extra charge).  What he does is he talks to a lot of girls at the beginning, gets a feel for how into him they are, and pick then one that is likely to be the most on and then takes them to the VIP.
• I have noticed that rewarding good behavior and punishing bad behavior still applies to strippers.  Many time I have talked to strippers for hour long conversations and its getting good and the girl asks me to get a dance from them or go get a drink from them and I say "NOPE".  Its essentially a slap in the face to them and the conversation comes to a screeching halt.  Some get butt hurt or completely bitter which is a complete 180 degree reversal.  Think about it, I am essentially punishing good behavior.  Some of these girls make 2 - 3 thousand a night and if they made zero dollars in an hour, they are severely reducing their pay to talk to you.  If you actually like the girl and want to continue, it wouldn't hurt to buy them a drink.  If you don't care and just want verbal practice, then it doesn't matter I guess.
• The guy I know that has the best strip club game is probably Luke Krogh.   He also teaches pickup and used to be an instructor for AFC Adams.  He does it by befriending all the employees, bouncers, bartenders, essentially doing social circle over the entire strip club and comes at the girls from a non customer frame.  It seems like a pain in the ass to me.

This girl hung out for an hour and a half and gave me like 4 free lap dances because I offered her some donuts lol.

January in Vegas

Its that time of the year. CES and AVN... a great mix of nerds and pornstars.  The average age of clubbers will probably go up 10 years and the entire city will run out of fake eyelashes and douches (like the real ones).

I will see if I can crash both, will post updates later.  Ill probably post some stuff about stripper game and also going to strip clubs in general.

Happy New Years! (2014)

I just wanted to say Happy New Years!  2013 has been a crazy year.  I lost my engineering job and I started teaching pickup... a rather weird transition.  I moved from a suburb town in Cali to the Strip in Las Vegas... another odd move.

Last year, I met a lot of cool dudes.  A lot of guys who signed up for training are actually really awesome in other areas. I've met doctors, film producers, engineers, Grammy winners,  marines, and artists.  There were a few odd balls too but we won't talk about that hahaha.  But seriously though, guys who invest in themselves are usually the ones you want to hang out and make friends with.  Guys waiting in line on Black Friday to blow 1500$ on big screen TVs and nachos, probably not.

I hope 2014 will be better year for you guys.  I hope you all increase your lay count, approach count, SNLs, MLTRs, and LTRs!  Keep going out and target that 2000 approaches for the year.

What are my goals for 2014?

• 15000 YouTube Subscribers (at my current rate I'm only projected at 8500 subs)
• Get my real estate broker license (I'm bored of engineering for now)
• Travel to at least 2 distinct places outside of the US (fairly easy to do)
• Invest additional 80k
• 210lbs / 9% body fat while off Creatine (should be fairly easy, I am currently 205lbs, 12%)

None of these goals are crazy, I am pretty sure I will achieve all of them.  I'll make a post next year about this post!

Mistletoe Opener

Here is a great holiday opener you guys can use.  Its a lot of fun and you can get sexual very quick.  Literally bring a piece of mistletoe to the club with you.  Go up to a girl, smile, and then say "Mistletoe!" followed by an attempt to insta kiss. If she turns away or stops you, you say "Hey, I don't make the rules!", and then try again.  If you get the kiss, great, if not, transition to normal conversation.  The key to going for the kiss is to inch forward slowly as to give the girl time to react.  You don't want to face punch them with your mouth.

Now obviously, this is a pretty ballsy opener so guys with AA are probably not going to attempt it.  However, if you have manageable AA, its a lot of fun.  I did this opener last weekend and had great results.  Heck, I didn't even use real mistletoe.  I went up to a shrub in Marquee night club, tore off a piece and used that instead.  Out of like 12 or so girls I opened with that opener, only one girl called me out for not using real mistletoe.  Lets be cereal, these girls aren't botanists with understanding of mistletoe taxonomy, NOMSAYIN?

Your results will obviously vary depending on your delivery and your level of hotness.  Out of the 12 or so girls, I got like 2 insta makeouts and 3 kiss on the cheek but one of them I snuck a quick kiss on the mouth.   With an opener like this, its going to be high risk and high reward.  But since its such a simple and low investment opener, its great inside big clubs.  Even if you get denied a kiss, its still funny as fuck.  Again, just because she doesn't kiss you, it doesn't mean the set is done.  Keep going on the set.

PS: I give credit to Psych.  He has good game and also a big dick.

Winging and Demoing

Not a specific how to post but just some thoughts and insights.


Winging
You don't need a wing to start out.  A lot of beginners feel the need to have a wing to go out.  Sure, its kind of cool to have a wing, you guys can pump each other's state and encourage each other and its a lot more fun... however from a technical point of view of the set, wings aren't necessary (when you're new).

The reason is this... a wing should not come in until the set is HOOKED.  The purpose of a wing is to help you ISOLATE your target from her friends.  If you're struggling to hook most sets, a wing coming in is likely to fuck up your set even more.  You should just be working on your own verbals.  Think about it.  If the set is not hooked, its very volatile.  Any time you reach a low point, the set is at risk of leaving.  What happens when the wing comes in?  Its an initial disruption to the set and a lot of times the girl will leave as soon as the wing comes in because you have to address your wing and some times the girls take that opportunity to leave.

The only exception is if your wing is significantly better than you.  In that case, you're going to passively learn from him.  However, if you suck, and your wings suck too, just go out solo till you're at a decent level.

Personally, I show up to venues with  friends however, most of the time I just run my own sets.  Its always served me quite well.  We usually meet up afterwards for food.  Only in certain instances, I will text my friends to come wing me if I feel like there is a window opening and I need a distraction.  I usually don't do the whole night alternating winging and being winged.

In a nutshell, don't go out with someone just because you feel the need to have a wing.  A wing who is skilled is great but a shitty wing is far worse than going out solo.

Demoing
Obviously, I demo during infields however, I do demos that I feel are pertinent to the students skill level.  If you have massive approach anxiety, I will focus the demo on ways to get in state and how to rapidly open sets.  I'm not going to try and demo on how to have a fucking 6-some.  Seriously last week, a student told me that instead of him opening and approaching that night, he just wanted me to open a 3-set of hot girls, pull them ALL to my condo, he would wing me and have the other student wing the 3rd girl, and we would all have a merry 6-some orgy.  Are you fucking kidding me?  This isn't fairy tale land where you read some pickup books and you're magically Hugh Heffner.  Even if I brought 3 girls back to my pad, the other 2 students wouldn't have the skills to pull it off.  They were complete beginners.

Also, if you are a student and I am demoing, don't try to wing me.  It usually doesn't work out that way.  Just observe me (if you want to see me progress further in set).  This applies more so to loud venues and dance floor environments where girls are ADD and you don't get to utilize your verbals as much because its too loud.  I was a Hakkasan and I opened an Asian girl set and my student comes in literally less than 1 minute later, the set wasn't hooked and the girls said "Is that your friend, HAHAHA".  I told them they were a bitch for judging my friend.  Fucking Asian girls.

A lot of pickup guys don't realize that most people are friends because they share commonalities and this doesn't including browsing the same pickup forum lair.  People who are friends tend to be in same social circles, have similar levels of fashion, hobbies, and as crazy as this sounds, similar levels of fitness and attractiveness.  Look at groups of girls in social circles and clubs.  If you look at a group of 5 girls, their level of attractiveness is maybe +/- 2 give or take on a rough level.  You're are rarely going to see a fucking HB10 stunner standing next to a 300 pound Rosie O'Donnell lookalike.  Birds of a feather flock together.

What does this mean?  If your wing exercises, you should too.  If your wing wears a suit to the club, don't be that guy that wears an oversized t-shirt with dirty baggy pants and sneakers.  Actually make it look like you guys really do hang out.  If the wingman's skill is better, he can usually wing.  Just note, he needs to tone down his energy as to not steal the show.  If the wingman's skill is worse, he is likely to ruin the set unless he has a baseline level of ability.  For example, I can usually wing my students no problem (after they hook), but few students can wing me unless its a very low energy environment and the girls are receptive.

Pics of me winging my student.  I dunno why he gave me the prettier girl.  Not my fault!

Toronto Eaton Mall PUA Bannings and Day Game Consequences

Most of you guys have seen this video.  The video is my first set of the day at Eaton Mall in Toronto.  The girl immediately asks if I was part of a group because 3 guys had previous approached her with a similar opener.  All of which failed to get her number which I did easily but that's not the point of this post lol.

This was 2 months ago.  But since, the mall has gotten even worse when it comes to PUA running around rampant that security is now purposefully looking for guys approaching girls.  Here are some related links.

http://www.torontolife.com/style/random-stuff-goods/2013/12/06/pickup-artists-eaton-centre/
http://www.cbc.ca/player/News/ID/2423745669/


I want to share my perspectives because if guys keep doing this, they are going to ruin day game for all of us.



Day game is very different than night game.
There are things in game you want to learn like dominance, kino, physical escalation, hard teases. Practice and learn that shit in NIGHT GAME.

Day game is not night game. Its not a social environment where people are primed to talk. People are out and about in their own worlds doing random errands and not with the intentions of socializing to strangers.

Also, day game isn't fueled by alcohol which means any type of weirdness and creepiness will be detected and picked up by the girl. You can get away with being somewhat weird if you have good energy level and you're a lot of fun at night, but it is very noticeable during the day. All that weird gamey shit and routines that kind of work at night comes across creepy during the day.

The world is much smaller than you think.
When I started pickup, I used to think the world was my wonderland. There would be infinite number of sets and I would be totally anonymous. The world is MUCH MUCH smaller than you think. I have bumped into the same girls dozens of times. Lots of girls have seen my infield videos and called me out and I have never met them ever. I have met girls in one city and bumped into them in another city. If I have an infield footage of a girl without blurring their face, there is a 50% chance they will find out. Don't forget I am in one of the biggest metropolitan areas in the United States. Los Angeles and Vegas are big fucking playgrounds. Even still, its pretty small. Keep in mind, the bigger the playground, the more other PUAs there are out there. Places like 3rd Street Promenade of Santa Monica, Beverly Hills Center Mall, Fashion Valley Mall of San Diego are all rampant with pickup dudes. With a trained eye, its so easy to spot.

The things you do have serious repercussions. The very reason of what makes day game awesome is that the approaches appear genuine and that its the first time in a long while the girl has been approached. A girl who has been approached during the day with failed attempts will feel much more awkward than if she got hit on poorly in a club because in a club, its expected.

If you're the first person who approached her in a month, the interaction is likely going to be great (assuming you have skills). However, if she was approached poorly even just once that day... its going to negatively affect your interactions significantly.
Problems with in-field videos and glamorization of flash game and instant makeouts.
Two main reasons. Lots of videos on YouTube tell you that its okay to do whatever the fuck you want and just be in state. You see lots of videos where guys do anti-anxiety drills like dancing in public, or shouting in public, or doing ridiculous things. Learning pickup has lots of segments in which you acquire a skill by going the extreme, but once you learn it, you need to SCALE back. For example, people who run out of things to say will need to learn how to plow and be the never ending talker. But at at the certain stage, you need to actually scale back and talk less so the girl can start talking and invest. The same applies with dealing with anxiety. Doing too much anti-anxiety drills can make you become numb to social norms. When you do weird shit over and over and over... it becomes a habit and you become a weird dude. Doing these drills once you are able to manage anxiety and approach does not provide additional benefits and in fact will be more detrimental.

The last point is the glamorization of flash game. People think its sooooo cool to go up to a girl in the mall and start making out. That's fucking weird and invasion of privacy. You can not force kino like that. It makes girls VERY uncomfortable. Now you might ask... "can you pull it off?". The answer is YES, you CAN pull it off, but it will be a very small percentage of girls. Obviously you see instructor level guy doing infields where they are doing insta-makeouts. However, do you know how many girls they have creeped out BEFORE getting that select few footages and only uploading THOSE FEW footages on YouTube? And imagine if thousands of people watch that and attempt this, how quickly a mall can get blown out?

If the end game is to go on a day 2 with a girl, there really is no reason to try to makeout with her in the mall. What for? Its just fucking flash. Be normal, make a solid connection, set up a day 2 that favors you logistically and have it be in an environment that IS seducible.

The first barrier in pickup is eliminating anxiety. A percentage of men do that. However, there is a relatively large percentage of guys that are stuck in this plateau. They don't get that much better at game and they don't get better with calibration. As a result, they attempt to increase lay count by sheer volume and doing the numbers game. Essentially, they are running the same shit routine / style and getting conversions by pure brute force numbers. If you think about it, their game really isn't getting any better. And if too many people run shitty numbers game.... you're going to have a lot of pissed off women. Every girl has different levels of receptiveness. Some are down for instant makeouts, some aren't. You must evaluate accordingly.

General guidelines with day game.

• Open from behind, but once she turns around, you need to stop.  If you don't stop, she won't stop.  Continue to deliver your opener even if she is appearing to continue walking because she has to overcome some forward inertia.
• If you can't get her to stop, too bad.  You're done.  Never follow a girl during day game.
• If she says she has a boyfriend, don't persist.  Say "Hes a lucky guy" and eject.
• Pay attention to your surroundings.  The less people around the more noticeable you are.  Pay attention to security guards, pay attention to hired guns who are staying outside of the store handing out freebies.  If you notice people staring at you for an extended amount of time, its time to move to another location.
• It is tempting to open hired guns because they work there and they tend to be nicer.  However, because the fact they work there means they can't walk away from you, which creates an awkward situation if it doesn't go well.  Also because they are working there, you are likely to bump into them again and again in the future.
• No crazy peacocking that makes you stand out but also don't dress like a kiosk seller (typically black shirts).
• Again, try to be "normal".  Save the crazy shit for night game (my favorite).

Massage Oil Escalation

Here is a quick how to post and it pertains to end game.  This is one method that has worked consistently.  I don't know why I keep telling you guys my best secrets.  I am pretty sure some girl is going to read my blog sooner or later and call me out on my tactics.

It helps to know how to actually give a good massage.  Just go to a massage place and get a few deep tissue massages to you know some techniques.  Its really not that hard.

Basically you remove all the chairs in your room so she has to sit on your bed.  Turn on some good music.

Start giving her a neck massage sitting down.  Then go ahead and make her face down and start giving her a back massage.  At this point, the clothes are still on.

When she starts getting into it, tell her you got a this new Kama Sutra massage oil kit from your friend who works at the massage place (your friend aka Amazon) and you are dying to try it.  Basically you tell her to take her shirt off because you don't want to get oil on her shirt (totally valid reason!).  At this point bra is probably still on.  As you get more and more oil on her, you eventually tell her the bra needs to come off.  Then you start rubbing her legs and quickly gloss your hands on the bottom side where her boobs are.  The key is to do it very quickly to test the waters.  You don't want to plant your hand on her boobs unless you know shes down.  You basically slowly have your hands run across it longer and longer until she is totally okay with your hands there.  You can rub her thighs with her pants on and basically get your hands close to her crotch.  The idea is gradually acclimate her to your touches.  At this point, shes probably wet.  You should probably have your shirt off.  Having a six pack obviously helps.

From here, you can either take off her pants and massage her legs and then flip her over, or you can flip her over with her pants on and start making out with her.  At this point, you should be dry humping her.  Once you feel like shes getting more into it, you tell her that her pants are really rough and uncomfortable and you take off both your pants off.

Obviously no means no.  If she pushes you off, stop.  If its token resistance, here are some common responses.

When pants are still on
"We're not having sex"
"Of course not, we are just dry humping"

When underwear still on
"W'ere not having sex"
"I just want you to straddle me"

When completely naked
'"We're not having sex"
"Of course not, I just want to rub it on your clit"
or
"Of course not, I'm just going to put it in real quick, and I will pull it right back out"

Just remember to pay attention if its token resistance or real resistance.  Unless you're totally uncalibrated, its not hard to tell.  If shes still doing what you guys were previously doing... its still on.

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